Why do men like fat women
Do men like obese women. Overweight, cellulite, appearance and sexual desire. Men and sexual preferences.
Forgive me my tactlessness, but seriously - is there anyone here who really thinks that a mentally healthy man can like a fat woman?
No matter how sleek, intelligent, kind, deep fat woman was, she is not able to evoke romantic feelings in a man.
She just can not cause sexual desire in a mentally healthy man. If a man is a bestiality that sex with animals excites, then yes: then a body resembling a pig carcass will be more desirable for him than the body of a mannequin. But bestiality among men is not much, and the overwhelming majority of men can fall in love only with slender women. And this is the true truth that I did not invent, which is laid down by mother nature. Whether you like it or not.
It just surprises me that my ex, who drooled from turned figures and trimmed pop all his life, suddenly turned to my old friend, who in her youth, of course, was nothing like that, but now she is so full that she barely crawls through the door and takes just two places in public transport. And he assures me that he loves her, that there are pure and bright feelings, that he is ready to accept her all such a beautiful currency nymph with her child from her first marriage. Just do not believe me somehow in such love, because it is unnatural. A woman is attractive with her feline grace and thin waist, and not with cellulite playing in all directions.
I thought a woman is attractive by her character and attitude towards a man, and not by the absence of cellulite.
There is a natural fullness. There are running.
It is worst of all to be a limited man with a hen's brain. Because you can lose weight, but the brain - it is innate. And the fullness is different too. And it is not always associated with proper nutrition. Take care of yourself. And then straight through dissatisfaction with all that is written.
Mother nature, as you put it, laid the opposite. A complete woman means strong, healthy, able to give birth and bear a healthy child. Well, thin, then die in the first winter. Now, of course, with mortality, everything is not so, but as you yourself say - mother nature has been laid.
And so, you do not think that she is just kind and gentle, or, for example, she cooks amazingly. And you gloating snake, excuse me, they exhibited such themselves.
Do men like a fat woman?
1. Completeness is actually different. I agree with the commentators above. And the girls-half-laughs are beautiful on the face and attractive in character.
2. A slender woman is not at all a mannequin from the catwalk. For the latter - hangers with a lack of breasts and priests, and even the ribs stick out. Fashion models are different.
3. Very sorry for you that you do not know what love is. For what you write about sex, just is just a simple animal instinct associated with the first external causative agent - appearance. And then you do not see anything, so I conclude that you do not know anything about love at all.
Ps. Somehow my uncle said about women in the body and thin, it is better to swing on the waves than to fight on the rocks.
Everyone has different tastes, at first you pay attention to the appearance, but then the person himself plays the decisive role - character and inner world. Sometimes you meet and think - what a beautiful, and as a result, rotten inside one thing. So from this it pulls you, unfortunately. I hope it's just jealousy of you and hurt that he threw it. And yet you are not like that.
A man, like a dog, will not rush at the mosles! When my husband and I started dating, I weighed 47 kg with height 162. But as soon as I gained a little kg, he told me that he liked me more. Because there is something to touch and remember.
The author, I have the darkness of familiar girls who have already married, being moderately plump or pyshechkami. The main thing in a woman is a good disposition, care and love for a man. And you, judging by the written text, the girl may be slim, but angry.
I know chubby, who have no release from men. And it is in sexual terms. And until you learn to distinguish love from lust, you will wonder why the man is plump and not with you. And, by the way, if you think that rushed fat women to protect out of solidarity - look at the photo, this is not so.
You are simply offended by the author!
Envy. But I would like to hear the opinions of men. And then only two spoke.
Even you can smash. Do not forget about it. It is unlikely that you will be served as a nun because of excess weight. I myself am one of the fatties, however, now thinner by 20 kg. You can never guess what will spread you, from which - on the contrary - you will lose weight.
Probably, he found a brain there, and it was so important to him that he didn’t care about the figures, the figures he ate apparently from the “former”.
And here the weight and feelings? My friend married a chubby. And she was blown so, and this she had not yet given birth, just "good food" made itself felt, but he never said bad to her. Still love carrots. But I after birth have recovered as much as 10kg, I felt like a hippopotamus, my weight was 3 years. And for some reason I did not become worse for my husband. And you, the author, apparently, are lonely, so the evil one is. With such anger no thinness will help.
But babuska, which in the photo, if he sees this post, will be indignant, will be upset.
The author, you are angry, offended woman, and besides, with a bunch of complexes. If you really believe that a slim body causes desire, I feel sorry for you. Desire is what this body is filled with. And besides, a beautiful figure is not the absence of excess weight, thinness or slimness. The beautiful figure is the curves, the correct proportions and shapes. I have always been a tall slim girl (175 cm and 55 kg), during pregnancy I greatly added, now, of course, I am in shape. The point is not that. I want to note that stormy nights, and even days, have not diminished in my life. The author, you need to love yourself, not to criticize people. Men are not excited by the waist or lack thereof, but by energy, promise, temperament, playfulness, etc. Yes, and everyone's sexual preferences are different. Maybe this chubby woman works wonders in bed, and with you he was bored. Your self-esteem is at zero, it seems. How so? You, such a beautiful, chose the fat. The author, and with a perfect body and face - there are also gray, frigid mice. And in 100 kg - you can be a goddess and a queen in bed. It does not matter how much kg you have, it is important how you carry yourself through life.
To each his own. Tastes are different. Many men do not like lean herrings. And here is a mental disorder ??? Somehow you narrowly think the author. Suspicion that you - all so thin, slender were exchanged for pyshechka.
What do you think about the sexual preferences of men?
I'll tell you my story. With the growth of 170 I weigh 85. There is also a serious lack of appearance, I will not say which one. When she met her future husband, and it was a long time ago, it was 52 sizes, with his 44-46. And I do not like fat men categorically. I like skinny, slim and strong. And women too. Therefore, I have never considered myself beautiful, although my face is rather pleasant and not at all fat (but one face with such a figure ...). But the husband, already being a husband, when I asked him why he chose me, said that I was a very nice and nice girl.Years went by. Despite the fact that I liked my husband, I was very complex and gave up on myself, like, well, I won’t like men, and I don’t. Engaged in other interests. And did not notice the signs of attention from other men. It is now in retrospect I remember ... It all lasted for many years. Until one day a man appeared who told me: "I would like to know what kind of woman you are." I? Woman? Really??? He was persistent and very frank with me in conversations. In appearance I liked him - thin, slim, sexy. I was shocked to like a man I like. Because I thought that SO stunning ones should like only stunning beauties - after all, they have every opportunity to choose. I had such confidence. But he told me that he liked all sorts, but he prefers the full ones. And somehow it turned out that at the same time I had some girlfriends, very sexy women, about one of whom I can say that she is just terrible (very ugly). But they all had tremendous power over men. And they laughed at me that I complex. Then I decided to change. The girls told me that you need to look carefully at a woman who is successful, and behave and "radiate" the same as she. I tried to copy it. In the beginning it turned out clumsily. But after a short time, one man began to stick to me, just to my taste, to which I responded, and he didn’t get over to fall in love. I looked at my fat body and laughed to myself: "Well, well, well!" And he ran after me with a tail ... Then I threw him, because there was a reason ... And after that I began to notice that I also have power over men. They react to my views, I can excite them, like them. I can cause a sexual impulse in them. But NOT DOING ANYTHING. I changed my character. I have become more relaxed, strong, courageous. I am not afraid to show my tenderness, my good attitude. I'm not afraid to push and pull. And I know for sure that I CAN LIKE THOSE WHO LIKE ME. I can not like it, but I can like it!
Therefore, dear women, our power is in our character: in our sexuality, self-confidence, good health and vigor (right here, someone noticed). If a man is not a freak, he wants tenderness, affection, excitement, wants to be accepted and appreciated as a person, supported, shared his interests. Reciprocated, but were a little inaccessible ...
I remember such a case. I have acquaintances, a husband and wife, whom I often encounter in everyday situations. With our husband from this couple, we had a not very good relationship, for no particular reason. Then one day we ran into him, he began to let go of his stupid jokes, and I pretended that I perceive these jokes, and they confuse me and like me. Eyes lowered and giggling. And he caught the bait, joked more and more, contact formed, I felt that he already had sympathy and interest in me. Then his wife came up (who usually never prevents him from making jokes), quickly assessed the situation and actively “stood up” for me, they say, why did you stick to it, etc. When we broke up, I neighing (I apologize) to myself in a loud voice - this is necessary, after so many years of alienation and dislike, SO EASY to change his attitude! I must say that his wife is beautiful. But I, it turns out, is also a WOMAN! No, I'm not going to seduce this man, it just showed me that I have the power. :-)
Therefore, lovely bbw, looks are an accessory to character. We have the same sexuality and power, as well as skinny. And sexuality and power pulls men like a magnet. And you choose, you need this applicant or not ... Attention of men is not a prize for what we are, it is an interest in a strong and harmonious being, it is gratitude for the good that we give them, and craving for it again and again. And if he just needs to be crammed with a “flexible ass,” is this specimen interesting for you? .. It is unlikely to satisfy your spiritual needs ... ;-)
“Her soft and invoking forms, covered only with thin cold silk, attracted his gaze, sliding along the juicy bulges and smooth depressions of the body. He dreamed that she was always there ... "
Reading another novel about eternal love, girls often ask themselves: “What exactly did the author of the next bestseller imagine?” After all, today’s modern girl looks skinny with no visible bulges, and the concept of a bust is limited to a chest size of around 90 cm, and it doesn't matter Whether the mammary glands are developed or not, the main thing is to keep the proportions! And how to be plump or fat women, who, looking at photos of modern beauties, feel defective, and moreover, how in this case to meet the love of their whole life?
This topic, especially relevant in recent decades, excites the minds of the entire female population of the planet. What should it be to please the stronger sex, and do men really prefer us? For the answer is to go back a few centuries ago ...
Fat women in human history
Epoch lean can be counted on the fingers. Among them, they distinguish Ancient Egypt, where Nefertiti was considered the standard of beauty - refined and fragile, the Rococo era in Europe, which resembled a puppet theater - girls couldn’t tighten their waists, giving an excessive amount to a “soft spot” with wide skirts. The beginning and end of the 20th century chooses skinny, in the first case, “female comrades,” in the second, high, overly thin, with pelvic bones sticking out, without pronounced breasts.
- Greece was captivated by the beauty of the goddess Aphrodite. It is worthwhile to look at the surviving statue - rounded thighs, bulging tummy, small chest, ribs and clavicle hidden under fat.
- The Renaissance was fascinated by the famous Venus, emerged from the depths of the sea. Her beauty consisted of wide shoulders, big hips, a healthy and flourishing look.
- Baroque epoch admired with full hips, small breasts and jade leather.
- During the times of Romanticism, full, with a magnificent chest and shoulders, rounded forms, glowing with a healthy blush and cheerfulness, were especially valued.
- In the first years of the 20th century, men valued healthy women, with voluminous forms, bold eyes and healthy blush. The Russians were especially valued at that time - an example of the preferences of the male population is the painting “Merchant's Tea”.
After analyzing the above information, we can safely conclude that we have almost always been the cause of sleepless nights and feats of males of all ages and ages. Psychologists, including the famous Sigmund Freud, tried to explain this behavior.
Instinct has not been canceled.
The psychologist, as you know, practically explained all human actions by instincts and libido - he subconsciously chooses a woman suitable for the role of the mother of his children in the future, assesses her appearance from the quality production of offspring, where the body fat plays a large role, chest. And all that makes the young stallion, rather a fad. The fact remains that men of mature age often prefer full, and not because they have no choice, but because the expectant mother is important for them, and not the “model” with eternally bad mood and stress. And now let's answer the question why men choose obese women:
- Seductive bulges and hollows are pleased with the absence of protruding bones - it is pleasant for hands and eyes.
- A woman with pleasant forms, who does not deny herself the amount of food consumed, behaves similarly in bed. In addition, such people will take good care of the man, putting another piece of juicy steak and a portion of crisp potatoes on his plate.
- Good mood and smile are always present on the face of chubby girls, which guarantees, in their opinion, the absence of scandals, bad mood, and most importantly - the hated "No, I have a headache, I'm tired!".
- On the part of obese women, in the opinion of men, there is no need to fear criticism, it’s safe and warm with them.
What happens in order to make a man happy is to be cheerful, to have a few extra pounds, to cook tasty and plentifully, to perceive the man as he is. That's the whole secret of happiness! Finally, we recall a few names with overweight:
Katya Zharkova - famous model
Crystal Rennes - the model that conquered Jean-Paul Gautier
Queen Latifa - singer, not planning to lose weight
Larisa Dolina is a famous singer who realized that pleasant forms are not only beautiful, but also necessary for a successful career, and the list goes on and on. Dear readers, nothing is impossible and weight - success is not an obstacle!
Why do men like stout women?
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Why is it necessary to humiliate or insult others in order to exalt one? Really, you do not have arguments that do not offend girls of other builds, different from the one you sing in the article? It is low and shallow! And plump and skinny have the right to be! And be loved and sung by YOUR men. Do not compare anyone with anyone. Anyone is God's creation! Or maybe you dare to argue with him? ;) For this kind of articles you can always see who is "hiding" ... Fat women are engaged in the promotion of their bodies, their thin ... And each has its own truth. But, as you know, the truth is somewhere in the middle ....
