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He says he is in love. How to determine that a man is in love




If you delve into psychology, the theory that men and women are creatures from different planets ceases to seem absurd. Speaking in the same language, they do not always understand each other, because in the same words they often put a completely different meaning. Being in a state of love, the representatives of the stronger and weaker sex behave differently, and this is natural. In this article we will talk about how to distinguish a man in love from a flirting man, and also what features of male behavior can be regarded as signs of sincere disposition.

Little about women

In love with girls, or women, it is very important to know whether their feelings are mutual with a loved one. Seeing women's doubts about this, men for the time being perceive them with irony, but there is an edge to everything. If he is really in love, your distrust will be an insult to him, and then the situation will change radically. A woman who wanted to get proof of male love finally got it, only now she has a panic on another occasion - the relationship is cracked and you need to somehow save them. So that the situation does not lead you to a dead end, refrain from two major mistakes that can cause any relationship under the ice:

  • Do not attack the man inquiries. If he wants to, he will say it himself, and this is not the only thing. Feeling like being interrogated by an investigator, he will tell you everything you want to hear from him, but who will be better off from this?
  • Do not listen to other women's advice. There are no sadder pictures than when a young girl, entangled in her love story, discusses her with a twice-divorced relative, or a friend who suffers from a lack of male attention, and literally catches every word "confidant". The advice of successful women is also dangerous, since the organized personal life is not always an indicator of knowledge of male psychology. If you still need good advice, it’s better to turn to him if not to a psychologist, then at least to a close and benevolent man in relation to you (father, brother or boyfriend), but do not regard his words as a guide to immediate action. In no way should the subjective point of view of another person set the tone for your relationship.

Behavior of a man in love

If your favorite boyfriend or man has serious intentions towards you, you will definitely understand this, but it is not necessary to focus attention on his words. As you know, women love ears, and experienced ladies' men often use this, but a truly in love person does not always know how to choose the right words to express their feelings. To clarify the situation, look closely at the actions of your chosen one.

Getting to know his surroundings

A man in love is happy because his feelings are mutual, therefore he does not hide relations with his beloved woman from others. Of course, this is not about teenagers, who first of all spread in social. networks joint photos and change the status from "free" to "in a relationship with a girl." Acting for show, rather, talking about fighting with some kind of personal complexes. Especially to acquaint your beloved with friends and relatives is also not necessary, especially at the initial stage of the relationship. It is enough just not to make a secret of what is happening. Nothing reveals so well the true intentions of a person as spontaneous situations for which he was not ready. You will not need any action other than observation. Here are two examples:

  • Phone call. His phone is ringing and at that moment you are near. The interviewee (friend, or someone from relatives) wonders where he is, or what he is currently doing. If he answers ambiguously, or even worse, lies in response, then your relationship with him is not in the first place for him, and he has reason to hide them. Do not immediately despair or reproach him - the call could well have a business character. Better pay attention to how the telephone conversation affected his mood, and how he will behave in a similar situation next time;
  • Chance meeting. During a joint walk you accidentally met his buddies. How does he behave? Will they introduce you as his girlfriend, or vice versa, without explaining anything to them, will he try to leave with you as soon as possible? The second option is a bad sign, and says, most likely, that communication with his friends can harm your relationship. Perhaps he is trying to protect you from some information, but this is not the worst case. It may be that he does not see a joint future with you, so he simply does not consider it necessary to acquaint you with his surroundings.

It was the outside of your love relationship, but it is equally important how your loved one behaves in private with you.

Actions say more than words

Love can never be explained from a logical point of view, but the presence of this feeling is necessarily accompanied by a desire to care for a loved one and a lively interest in his life. The style of communication between you and the man is also important - he can tell whether your chosen one appreciates you and your opinion of himself. If most of the points below are present in your relationship, you can safely speak, at least, of a very strong interest.

  •   Bearing in mind yourself and you, he uses the word "we", and does not divide into "you" and "I". Do you think that speaking is so easy to control? Not really. Most of the spoken words are ahead of the power of control over them, and people sometimes pronounce, if not in plain language, something that they very carefully hide from others. If the word “We” dominates the words “You” and “I”, then it perceives your union as an indivisible whole and sees the future together with you;
  • It takes active participation in your life. This is not about material assistance, because speaking of those men who have everything in order with finances, it is hardly appropriate to regard such an act as a sweeping gesture. Showing care is much more valuable and more determines the seriousness of his intentions. If you have some kind of trouble, and he does not remain indifferent and tries to give you all possible assistance, it means that you are really dear to him. However, a single case can not serve as an indicator, so look closely and draw conclusions;
  • His future plans are closely related to you.  and your capabilities. For example, he has a long departure planned in advance, and speaking of this, he is interested in your attitude to future changes and talks about your future together after his return;
  • is he counts with your opinion. Any important decisions for you you take only together. If he is not interested in your attitude to the events and his own actions, this characterizes him not as a leader in your pair, but rather as a tyrant. A person with a difficult temper can also be in love, but few can be happy;
  • After quarreling, he is the first to meet you.. This characterizes him not only interested in a relationship with you, but generous. Remember that in any conflict both are guilty and be able to admit their mistakes, because talking about the topic “A man must” or “A beautiful girl can do anything” usually ends in tears in the pillow;
  • He tries to spend as much time with you as possible.  and does not prefer to meet with your friends. The main condition here is the voluntary desire of a man to spend his leisure time with you. Variants where he is forced to abandon his plans under the influence of emotional blackmail on your part rather say that the relationship is deadlocked.

Remember that women express their feelings more emotionally than men, so do not judge your lover by yourself and do not push him to commit acts that are not peculiar to him. Be happy!

Very often, when they meet a guy, girls cannot fully realize what feelings their chosen one feels for them, how deeply they managed to sink into his soul and get a place in his heart. But for any representative of the weaker sex, it is so important to know that they love her. That is why the question of how to understand that a man is in a state of love has been disturbing women's minds for many years now.

According to psychologists, it is quite simple to calculate a man in love, you just need to show some attention. Love can be read in the eyes of your partner, or you can see in his words or actions. It is important to remember that two identical people do not exist, which means that there is no exactly psychological portrait of a man in love, because each case is strictly individual.

By what signs can you calculate a man in love

One can understand how strong a sympathy a young man is towards his girlfriend or potential lady of the heart by a little analyzing his words and deeds. There are some signs of a man in love and you need to pay special attention to them. Surely, from the sensitive female gaze will not escape some important details.

So, a man may feel some embarrassment, confusion or embarrassment when in love.

The fact is that it is much harder for representatives of a strong half of humanity to get used to these new emotions and feelings that originated in the depths of their souls. After all, by their nature, men are accustomed to always keep their emotions under tight control, but in a situation where love intervenes in the cause, it is very difficult to do. Only truly strong men are able to openly admit to a beautiful lover in their sincere sympathy. However, they need time for this. A woman should only take a wait-and-see attitude; sooner or later, the boy himself will reveal her soul to her. And up to this point, the knight will in every way hide his constraint, defying the fact that he is so blinded by her beauty that sometimes he cannot find the word when left alone with her to keep up the conversation.

Very often, a man tries to hide a state of insecurity and embarrassment in front of a girl by wearing a mask of an arrogant, narcissistic hero.

It's so much easier to hide your true feelings from her. Behaving in this way, the guy shows his companion in every possible way that he is confident in himself and his abilities. If this young man is really interesting to the girl, then she should not be frightened by such behavior, you just need to give him time to think things over and, perhaps, the man in love will soon appear before her from a completely different side.

A man in love always shows perseverance towards his chosen one, sometimes even excessive.

At the moment when the representative of a strong half of humanity is overwhelmed by the power of love, his whole world begins to rotate only around his new passion. At the instinctive level, the boy has a desire to at all costs to achieve the location of this girl. Behind frequent invitations to the cinema, café, for a walk, to the park, to the theater, there can be a secretly developed strategy by a man to conquer a woman he likes, as well as a great fear of hearing the word "no" from her. In case a woman realizes that she wants to be with this guy, she can safely accept all his courtship.

For some men, perseverance is a little different. So, sometimes there are cases when a man who is in a state of love, shows aggression even in relation to the object of his love.

In the address of the woman can pour silly jokes, stinging remarks. Thus, the guy is trying with his whole appearance to show the public that this woman doesn’t like him at all and is certainly not worthy of him thinking about her. In fact, behind such aggression lies the simple inability of a man in love to own his own emotions. That is why the girl should not be painfully perceived this vicious criticism in her address, she says only that the woman managed to seriously interest this guy. After all, if he really is so uninteresting to this girl, then why is he always with her and he is so interested in her personal life?

A man in love tends to show himself to his chosen one in the best light.

He tells her a lot about himself, talks about what he was able to achieve in this life, what he enjoys, how interesting his profession is. At the expense of such self-presentation, the guy seeks to create the best impression about the girl. A man in love in every way seeks to become an idol for his soulmate.

Not all guys hide their emotions behind the wall of aggression, on the contrary, many driven by love impulses tend to surround the object of their love with attention and care.

For the sake of his love, a man is ready to do anything. The problems of his companion instantly become his problems, he seeks to solve them even if it turns out to be a very dangerous and difficult task for him. After all, this is a matter of honor. This type of men always seeks to support his girlfriend in everything, surrounding her with warmth and affection. If a man behaves with his chosen one in this way, you can safely say that he is in love and that she was very lucky to meet such a guy in his life path.

Is the man jealous? And this is also a direct confirmation that the woman is not indifferent to him.

After all, a man in love does not tolerate rivals who can take away from him the object of his adoration. This is just by its nature jealousy is a very negative feeling, as it always finds its manifestation through aggression and assertiveness. Jealousy can destroy a person from within, bringing him to a state of deep depression. This explains the fact that sometimes a man can avoid meeting his lover for some time, trying to reduce his feelings and worries. Absolutely all men in love are jealous, just some of them manage to skillfully hide it from women's eyes. After all, for a guy jealousy is an indicator of his self-doubt and weakness, but men do not tolerate this and certainly don’t seek to demonstrate to girls.

A man who has really serious feelings towards a girl always watches her thoughts carefully.

Indeed, in every word she uttered he tries to discern a hidden meaning. From the stories of the interlocutor, the guy understands what she is interested in in life, what her future plans are, what she accepts in the relationship, and what she absolutely does not want to see in her future partner. Sometimes this endeavor to find out his companion turns out better that a man starts asking silly, for a woman's opinion, questions. However, in the depths of his subconscious, he builds a whole scheme for the conquest of this lady.


Mobile phone, calls, sms, social networks ... everything is complicated.

Nowadays, the above-described gadgets and services are tightly embedded in our lives. And everyone gives them a different meaning. Sometimes, young people break up because of the late response to the message Vkontakte. Of course, this is not serious. But, jokes aside and talk frankly. Some lovers of men can consciously withstand a pause in correspondence with the woman they like, knowing that in most cases it will only fuel her interest in him. But if this happens systematically, then perhaps this young man does not take you as seriously as we would like.

A really loving man always sees only good things in his lady's heart, trying to justify even mistakes in her behavior.

This cute creature he puts on a pedestal and puts up even with her faults, looking at her with admiring eyes. The veil obscures the eyes of any man in love, and this is absolutely normal behavior.

Experiencing romantic feelings for the girl, the guy is definitely trying to take the first steps towards an intimate relationship with her.

In this case, this term should not be understood as sexual contact. Most likely, it will happen much later. But quietly touch the beloved person, feel the smell of her skin, hair, feel the taste of her kiss, a man, certainly, will seek.

Drawing attention to the intonation and the voice of a man, a woman can also understand for sure how he treats her.

It is important to hear the phrases that he utters, to understand their true meaning, perhaps, a man covertly gives some hints of his sympathy. A declaration of love can sometimes be heard in the most unexpected and unusual forms, because a truly in love man is so difficult to voice it.

Male love is a little different from female in nature. Guys are much harder to admit their feelings than girls.

However, having shown a little patience and attention towards a man, a woman, for sure, will be able to understand the seriousness of his intentions in his address and, perhaps, after a while, to hear from him long-awaited words of love. The main thing is not to put pressure on man's pride, to support his chosen one and to be extremely frank and sincere with him. A man in love will definitely appreciate this behavior of his darling and will do everything to turn her life into a real fairy tale.

We all want to be loved! But sometimes the heart is so easily deceived. When you yourself fall in love, you really want reciprocity, so each look and every word of your loved one is given increased importance. It is easy to make a mistake by wishful thinking. You can take a glimpse and a smile for something more, but you can not notice a person who really loves you, he hesitates to show it ... How can you tell if he really is in love or you just want it?

These eyes are opposite ...

People can express love differently - someone will play, showing feelings that are not there, and someone will hide them and not dare to show a really deep affection. How to understand? Words can fool, but the eyes are not. If the guy does not take care and prefers to look not in the eyes, but on your legs - his intentions are not serious. You are for him - another victim.

Especially eloquent look of a man who did not expect to see you. In these first seconds, the eyes will surely give him away. He can be either indifferent or suddenly illuminated. If he loves you, you will definitely notice it. It will be so much warmth, attention and love that you just melt. Then he can look away, try to pretend that he does not notice you (if you have not met yet). His gaze will be attracted to you by a magnet, especially if he thinks that you do not see it. The eyes are a mirror of the soul, the look of a man in love will not be confused with anything!

But! Make no mistake - your eyes can catch fire even with a simple friendly disposition towards you. Be careful - do not confuse sincere feelings with the game of the manipulator, who will seek eye contact to enhance communication with you. There is no love in such a look.


Love does not love…

The most important thing is to distinguish serious feelings from simple attention and frivolous flirting (after all, men can flirt with you in a day, and with a couple of girls).

He does not look at other women. Only on you! The surest sign. If you see that attention is paid to everyone in a row - it is just Casanova. Seriously, it is better not to take such a person.

You constantly stumble upon it - sometimes in a store, then near your work, then close to home. Such accidents do not just happen. He bothered to find out where you are, trying to cross with you more often! Unless, of course, you just do not live and work nearby.

Pay attention to the small signs of attention, how he behaves with you. For example, is the place inferior, does it skip ahead. But keep in mind - this is not always a reliable sign. See if this only applies to you or to all the girls (maybe he's just a gentleman).


He becomes more frequent when he sees you. He is always in high spirits, literally glowing with happiness.

He seeks to be constantly on your mind, trying to draw attention to himself.

He pays special attention to his appearance - he just wants to please his darling!

He freely lets you into his intimate space. Moreover, he himself is committed to this. If he does not like you, he will not let you closer than 50 cm.

An important sign of love is the desire of a person to take part in your life, any actions that indicate that you are not indifferent to him.

A man in love necessarily cares about you, catches changes in your mood, tries to help if something happens.

It is vital for him to constantly see you, to be near. For your sake, he is ready to postpone all other matters and meetings. You are in the first place for him.

Constantly gives you surprises, wants to please you, fulfills any desire, even whims.

He reveals the soul, talks about the past. Believe me - for a man this is a serious step!


The lover often agrees with you, always listens carefully.

For your sake he is ready for feats. Of course, he is unlikely to fight the fire-breathing dragon (not those times after all!), But he is ready to change his way of life, give up bad habits, give up everything and rush at the right moment to help you.

He remembers all the little things that relate to your life. This means that you are very dear to him or he just has a phenomenal memory, and he remembers everything about everyone (but this is rare - we usually remember all the details only about people who are close to us).

He is generous and caring both materially and spiritually. He will not regret for you either warm words, nor time, nor attention, nor gifts. He frankly answers all your questions about the past, present and future. He does not laugh off and does not keep silent. The key to a reliable relationship is trust and honesty.

He allows you to manage in your home - to change the furniture, to make repairs. This is a sign that he does not mind letting you into his life. But if there are no other signs of attention, perhaps he simply trusts your taste. And do not be in a hurry to rejoice if you are simply eager to be used as a housekeeper. Perhaps he is just too lazy to do his own housekeeping? What is your pleasure, then, to wash his clothes and sweep the floor?

An important step - meeting with family and friends. Of course, there are men who freely acquaint you with all friends, but most often they do it only when they understand that there is something serious between you and they are ready to announce this to their loved ones, to take on certain kinds of obligations.

Speaking about the future, he uses the word "we", and not "I" - it means that he wants to connect his life with you. In his future, he sees you together!


He does not panic talk about family and children. He can even start them himself, because he sees his companion in you and is ready for a serious step.

He talks about financial well-being, for it is important for him to show that he is able to provide for his family.

He does not seek to remake you completely. He loves the way you are. Of course, in a relationship you have to make compromises, but when you begin to radically change you, this is more like trying to fashion from a girl what he needs. What kind of love are we talking about?

He never deliberately hurts. He cherishes you, cares, protects. Love and (both physical and spiritual) are incompatible! He can not indifferently watch how you suffer and cry - he will definitely try to help and dispel the clouds. He is your hero, remember?

The most important thing is to listen to your heart. There are many signs of love and seriousness, but each situation is different. If you are in doubt, do not take single signs of love, otherwise you may be deceived and take for love the simple disposition towards you. Look at the big picture! And let your world light up with the colors of love!

Everything about feelings, love, love, sympathy is so fragile and tender that it seems - one movement, and it will disappear. When everything is just beginning, the heart goes to the heels at the sight of the object of its admiration, the fog in the head from euphoria - how to understand whether your feelings are mutual? Moreover, no one exposes them, does not scream about them at every corner, but on the contrary, tries to hide them as carefully as possible. One moment - it seemed that the guy is still in love. A minute has passed - yes, no, probably, it really just seemed ... Guessing on the coffee grounds, chamomile, stars, likes or dislikes can be very, very long. Yes, and it is unlikely to give a satisfying, unequivocal answer. But to become more attentive, look at the guy, his behavior and understand whether he is in love - it is quite possible.

Our feelings, even the most hidden ones, can be recognized if desired. If we change from within, then changes occur outside - in behavior, appearance, speech, gait, facial expressions.

How to understand that the guy is in love?

10 signs that the guy to you is clearly not indifferent.

1. It is possible to suspect that a guy is in love with you if in your presence he began to behave somewhat strange. Not the fact that you will like the changes, rather, on the contrary, you will be surprised. A quiet person can begin to behave defiantly, arrogantly, rudely, so that no one will notice that he is shy of you, and the soul of the company suddenly loses all his charm and enthusiasm, because he feels uncomfortable in your presence and constantly thinks that you are near.

2. You constantly feel his gaze on yourself. Sometimes you manage to catch him, but he quickly looks away. Ask your girlfriends to see how often the guy looks in your direction. The main thing is that he himself did not notice that he was being watched. Try it yourself to test this version: when you feel that the guy is looking at you, get a mirror to supposedly fix his hair or makeup. In the reflection you will see where the guy's eyes are directed, you can also turn sharply in his direction and if he looked, then you are definitely interested in him.

3. You should be alerted that there were too many random encounters. If a guy is in love, he wants to see you as often as possible, to be as close as possible to you. Consciously or not, he will seek contact and therefore can literally “get confused” under his feet all day. To meet you in the morning at the entrance, to be near the wardrobe, then in the dining room, during the break, just pass by, ask for something trivial, contact your interlocutor. Do not be surprised if you meet him and in an unusual place - near his house, in a shop, cinema, where you went with your friends. This can only mean one thing - his intelligence works well and he is in love with you.

4. This item is a bit controversial, and the guys themselves are against it. The fact is that the boy in love betrays his gallantry and care. But the representatives of the male are protesting - allegedly they are always like that, and not just when Cupid struck their heart. But we, girls, know that sometimes it is not so easy to get chivalrous actions from them, especially not in emergency moments, when honor and dignity are at stake, but in everyday life. So suddenly a concern, an offer for help, an unusual concern about your health, mood, can tell you that someone has fallen in love.

5. By their nature, men are very inattentive. Rather, they pay attention only to the fact that they are very, very interesting. The rest of the information instantly disappears from their heads. The girls do not understand this, we often remember even what should have been forgotten, something accidentally told and trusted by us. A good memory of a guy regarding little things from your life says a lot. He remembered how many days you had a birthday, not “like the fall?”, He knows who you are in a horoscope, what city your sister lives in, what is your cat's name, what juice do you prefer? He is definitely in love with you.

6. He changed his plans for you. No not like this. HE CHANGED HIS PLANS FOR YOU! Only a man in love is capable of such an act. Just be careful, you need to understand that it was you who became the reason. Perhaps you blurted out that you are still going to come to this boring work day, stay after work to help decorate the room for the holiday. And, having heard this, the guy postponed his business, although he had previously intended to ignore these events. And if you directly asked him for help, knowing that he is busy, but did not receive a refusal - congratulations, this is love!

7. The boy in love will try to talk to you on topics that interest you.. The occasion can be a phrase about love for dogs accidentally dropped by you - in a couple of days he will decide to discuss with you the subtleties of caring for toy-terriers, tell about his pet, invite you to a thematic exhibition.

8. Did you notice that the guy started to look better. If earlier he calmly walked in jeans alone all week, and now he was clearly beginning to preen, then someone's opinion is important to him. He may ask your advice whether he is wearing this shirt or whether you like his perfume (oh, this is a reason to get hold of you). But you'd better be the first to notice the changes and make him a compliment. Get praise from the one in love with - what could be better? He will not be able to hide his joy and his contented look and red cheeks will give out feelings.

9. For his beloved boyfriend will try to be better. We unconsciously begin to behave somewhat differently near the object of love, trying to look better, smarter, more experienced, more interesting. Even notorious hooligans with their lady's heart are trying to control themselves, “to be good.” This behavior can only talk about one thing - the guy fell in love and really wants to make a positive impression.

10. Do you know guys who would like women's moods? They are annoying, angry, infuriating - in one word they do not cause emotion. Except for those moments when a guy is in love with a girl. In this case her whims seem to him a manifestation of weakness and insecurity. And he has a heroic feeling to save his beloved from adversity, satisfying all her whims.

Everyone knows the banal truth that a woman loves with her ears. This is true. I really want to hear compliments and words of love from the guy who we liked! But men, unfortunately, do not always rush to talk about their feelings. And we, girls, have only to guess what is going on there, inside, behind a chest that is wide and strong as a rock.

Fortunately, there are several correct ways to figure out whether the guy is in love or not. Yes, a man can not speak directly about their experiences. But his eyes, voice, gestures and behavior will tell a lot more words. And learning to read the male soul is not so difficult.

The behavior of a man is a mirror of his real motives. If a guy is not indifferent to you, he will definitely do the following things:

1. Call often

Of course, not all men behave the same way. It is easier for a self-confident guy to call than someone who is very shy. But even a timid young man will find at least a couple of questions or topics for a telephone conversation. Even if he is not able to say anything sensible into the phone, he will be embarrassed to apologize for the trouble.

2. Always find time for you

If you suddenly need help, your boyfriend will agree to come to the rescue. If he is in love, he will worry about your problems, delve into the difficult situation you are in, listen carefully, give advice and, of course, help.

If the guy is indifferent, he will find a thousand reasons why he has to leave you at a difficult moment (suddenly mom got sick, the boss called, the car broke down, etc.).

3. Admire you

Usually men do not notice what we are wearing or how we combed. But it always seems to a guy in love that you look amazing. He is not always able to express his admiration in the form of compliments (after all, not all men can speak them, plus some are hampered by embarrassment). But he will “devour” you with his eyes and in no case will he say that the dress does not suit you, and his lips are made up too brightly.

A guy who experiences true feelings will never be shy about showing you to his friends or relatives. On the contrary, he will be proud to present to the whole world the object of his sincere adoration.

Looking boy in love

Eyes - a spiritual mirror. This truth can also serve as a weapon in secret female intelligence. In the eyes of a man, you can tell whether he has an interest in you or not.

For example, a guy looks straight at you, not looking away to the side and not wandering around his face and body. Such direct eye-to-eye visual contact is treated in two ways: a man can see the enemy in you or, on the contrary, is deeply in love with his ears. In order not to be mistaken, peer into his pupils: if they are narrowed - the guy is tense and prepares for protection, if slightly enlarged - he is very interested with you, but if he is greatly expanded - he is experiencing sexual desire.

An indifferent guy will gaze at the ceiling, at the entrance doors of the café, at the adjacent tables, etc., unable to hide the boredom.

But if the guy looks at the floor, occasionally daring to look up at you, he may be very in love, but terribly embarrassed.

Another interesting feature of the male gaze: if a guy looks at you, but his gaze is constantly shifting from the face to the shoulders, neck, chest and other parts of the body, then he most likely just experiences a strong sexual attraction to you.

The boy in love can't usually take his eyes off your face. It is as if he is trying to memorize every dash, to examine each eyelash and not to miss the slightest lip movement. He intuitively seeks the answer in your face to his question: do you like him?

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Gestures and facial expressions

A lot of books have been written about non-verbal signs. Sign language speaks about us ten times more words to someone who understands it. It is not in vain that an attentive recruiter not only listens to your confession about himself at the interview, but observes how you sit, where you put your hands, whether you are disturbing objects, etc. He will know from these non-verbal signals whether you are fit for the position or no, before you finish the monologue.

So it is on the love front: a guy may try to hide his interest from you (for example, because of embarrassment or fear of being rejected), but his body and face give him away. When a man is in love, he does not notice that his hands do:

  • teasing a tie or buttons;
  • smooth hair;
  • twist the ear;
  • scratching his cheek, etc.

Often, a loving guy, looking into your face, involuntarily copies your facial expressions or gestures while you tell him something:

  • frowning if you are unhappy;
  • smiles if he sees a smile on your face (and not because you are telling a funny joke);
  • nods his head at the same time as you;
  • he even waves his hand when you greet his friends passing by whom he sees for the first time.

This behavior may seem absent-mindedness, but in reality, this is a bright sign that the guy is very in love.

If we talk about facial expressions, then a really loving guy raises his eyebrows and keeps his eyes wide open. Talking with you, it is difficult for him to control his emotions so much that he casually squints and winks, as the characters in films do.

The voice serves as a peculiar detector. Usually, a man who shows interest in you, he "sits down": very low overtones appear or become hoarse, as if the guy's mouth is dry. In addition, the voice becomes muffled, sometimes turning into an intimate, intriguing half-whisper.

How to check if a guy is in love

There are some more female tricks, how unobtrusively to find out the guy’s serious attitude towards you:

1. Check for generosity

Any girl likes being given gifts. It is always nice. Even if it is not a bag from Chanel for a fabulous price, but only a small chocolate bar “accidentally” found in the pocket of his coat.

Specially check the guy's generosity can be, passing by the counter, where you liked some cute thing, and show interest in it. If your boyfriend is in love, he will hurry to get the object of your attention and present to you.

2. Check his loyalty

In the cafe, where you settled for a cup of coffee, pay attention to any pretty girl in the hall. Say that she has beautiful shoes, or hair. And look how long the guy will consider a stranger (and whether he will turn his head at all).

If your companion is in love with you, he will either not at all show interest in the other, or glance at her with an absent-minded gaze, in a hurry to return to the dialogue with you.

3. Check for readiness to help.

Interested in you man surrounds care. He will only be happy when you ask him to carry a heavy bag or paint the door. Even if he is very busy, he will take the time to show you his serious attitude.

Signs of a guy in love

So, summarize the signs that will show us the true feelings of the guy:

  1. He will always find time to call, meet, help and just listen.
  2. He does not hide you from his friends and relatives.
  3. He can't take his eyes off your face. At the same time, his eyes shine, and his pupils are slightly dilated.
  4. His facial expressions and gestures sometimes reflect your own. Thus, he empathizes with your emotions. Or the guy just listens to you with his mouth slightly open and his eyes wide open.
  5. His voice, when he speaks to you, becomes rather low and muffled.
  6. He looks only at you. He is not interested in passing beauties.
  7. With respect to you, he is generous and helpful.

What else there are signals, talking about the love of a guy, learn from the video.