Do I like the guy signs. How to understand that you do not like men by gestures
It is possible for a long time to indulge in the hope that you like a man listening to his exquisite compliments, but if somewhere on a subconscious level you do not attract him as a woman, his gestures will surely tell you about it.
Gestures of any person contain up to 60 percent of all information transmitted to him by the interlocutor. Yes, yes, you were not mistaken - not words, but gestures. And how to understand on other grounds whether you like a guy, read in.
Just be attentive to the man and you will understand what he really thinks about you, and whether he thinks about you at all.
Signs that you do not like the guy
1. Man do not let you into your personal space, at any convenient opportunity increases the distance between you.
A man does this unconsciously, instinctively. Even the fact that he himself, every now and then, does not try to get close to you, speaks of some kind of rejection at the physical level.
You can check it yourself, just walk up or move closer to the man, and then watch his further actions.
If you are pleasant to him as a woman, he will be inspired by it and will feel quite comfortable. But if he quietly begins to distance himself from you and behave restlessly - this will unfortunately tell you about the opposite.
2. man almost does not look you in the eye and ignores your candid direct views. Everyone knows that the first sign of interest in a person is his view of the object he likes.
3. A man with his whole pose trying to dodge direct contact, for example, sits sideways to you, the toe of the shoe does not point at you, deflects the knees in the other direction.
A man who has nothing to hide, and he is ready and eager for open emotional or physical contact, behaves oppositely - he straightens his shoulders towards you, turns his whole body towards you, the socks of shoes and knees in this case will point to you.
4. Man now and then puts different barriers between you in the form of a chair back, arms crossed, a magazine or a newspaper.
5. Man trying to control his facial expressions, it is not very emotional, if it smiles, then it is somewhat casual, his speech is dry and restrained. All this suggests that he does not want to deceive you and give you ghostly chances.
Maybe it is worth assessing his honesty and finding a man who truly will be interested in a woman like you?
Young people who have little experience with the opposite sex often get lost and do not know how to properly evaluate the attitude of a particular person towards themselves. In addition, representatives of different sexes in the same situation behave differently, which further confuses the situation. But there are certain signs that a guy likes you and you should stop at them in more detail.
7 signs that you like a guy
- Even if a young man is silent or very shy, by his gestures you can always understand how he treats you. If in most cases the body is turned in your direction, arms and legs are not crossed, and the look is open and friendly, then this can be regarded as a positive sign. In addition, in the presence of the girl he is interested in, the guy will always strive to show himself in a winning light: straighten his shoulders and chest, casually demonstrate volumetric muscles or other virtues. In addition, he will look for a way to be as close as possible to the object of desire: he accidentally touches, taps, leans closer and whispers something in his ear, etc.
- The first signs that a guy likes you can be attributed to a shift. This will manifest itself in a change in his appearance, and style of behavior. Of course, he will try to look better: change his hair, get more model jeans, etc. At the same time, his style will copy the style of the girl herself. For example, if she ignores the rules and conventions and prefers a sporty style in clothes, then he will dress the same way.
- A shy guy will behave stupidly, carry some kind of nonsense, as Shurik does in the movie "Obsession." Such people often use social networks as a way to express themselves: they send gifts, “class” photos, etc. Well, non-shy people will use their full potential and knowledge to attract the attention of the person of interest: to scream jokes, play the guitar, etc. And some will just brag and brag about your merits.
- Those who are interested in what else there are signs that a guy likes you should answer that this is some kind of obsequious attitude towards the girl’s things and all that is connected with her. A handbag, pen or other thing that has fallen into the hands of a guy will be carefully preserved, and he can pull at it, stroke it, etc. He will be in awe of everything that is dear to her and accompany her to the sports section, if she visits her, be interested in flowers, if she loves them, etc.
- Those who ask how to find out that a guy likes you should pay attention to such a sign as real help. A young man in love will help the girl to the best of his abilities and capabilities: he will solve the problem, walk the dog, fix the household appliances and go take the garbage with him.
- The signs that a person likes you include frequent “random” meetings. If you are from different social strata or just spend your free time in different places or companies, then you should not be surprised if the guy starts to appear exactly where the girl is interested in him. Of course, he can come up with a bunch of excuses why he appeared here, but if this happens with enviable regularity, then the point is clearly in his sympathy for you.
- Well, the last sign is a look. Frank, a little playful and mysterious - he can clearly indicate the sympathy you have, but if the boy frankly looks at you and holds his gaze on the décolleté and below, then he clearly has sexual interest.
These are the signs that can be relied upon in assessing it.
Understanding when a woman likes a man, and at what stage of this “like” he is, is quite an important and interesting question. Male instinctive "courtship" for a woman is significantly different from what women think of them. In short, I already wrote about this in other articles on the website "Sunny Hands", but in this article I will try to combine everything into one whole.
Well, let's say that a man is already 30-40 years old. He is already "beaten" by life and women. Then he knows how to externally demonstrate that he likes a girl. (I want to believe in it)
To do this, he will come to a meeting with a bouquet of color, he will give compliments to a woman, he will invite her to a cafe, invite her to dance, arrange something like a romantic party, take your favorite woman home and most likely will not insist at the first meeting on sex. Such a man tells a woman that he likes her, that he loves her, that he wants her to marry him ... In general, the full set.
If a man behaves like this, then any woman “guesses” that he likes her. I will not write much about this. What to write about the obvious things.
Much more interesting to write about instinctive reactions. The reactions that occur in a man who does not know how to care for girls. (and most of them) Reactions that occur even when a man wants to hide his feelings.
The process that a woman begins to like a man does not happen at once and this process has certain stages.
Stage 1. A woman attracts a man with something.
I do not even know whether to write about this stage. It seems to be obvious. If a girl with her appearance, femininity or something else did not attract the attention of a man, then, accordingly, did not attract and did not like. The transition to the next stage does not happen and this is where everything ends.
How to attract the attention of men? Tons of articles and books are written about it. I draw your attention to them. Watch your appearance, choose the right clothes, learn a beautiful walk, the right manners, communication. Just much more communicate with a large number of men and read the articles on our website "Sunny hands" from the section "Psychology of men." Here, in brief, is what attracts attention.
On the other hand, I want to note that if, for example, three girls immediately attracted male attention, this does not mean that the most beautiful of them has the greatest chances. There is an advantage, of course, but not very significant.
What I want to convey to you this article. The main thing is not so much a victory at a certain stage, but rather a movement along the steps. And it may turn out that a girl attracts a lot of attention, like many, and the result in the form of long-term relationships, weddings, etc. not.
How to understand that the girl attracted the attention of men in the first stage? It is very simple. A man simply looks at such a girl longer and longer than usual. In addition, he tries not to let her out of sight. That is, if a girl moves somewhere, then he moves behind her at some distance, but usually does not approach her too closely.
That is, if a man constantly walks behind you at some distance, then this is most likely not some kind of maniac, but your future lover. To see him, of course, in a guy or in a man who silently follows you, it is difficult, but what to do? I repeat that it is not necessary for the guy to go after the girl. He can stand, if the girl does not move anywhere.
In itself, the passage of the first stage does little. After all, men can attract the attention of 10 girls every day. But without going through this stage, it makes no sense to talk about the further development of relations.
Stage 2. A man begins an African gorilla dance.
At this stage, the man dances a dance, bouncing while on one left foot, doing a flip, makes some strange sounds, etc.
Who does not fully understand what is at stake, I recommend reading a book about Tom Sawyer, where he begins to care for the girl he likes. If you are not convinced, then watch a comedy "My big Greek wedding"where we are talking about the courtship of a fully grown man. Pretty truthfully stated.
The goal of this stage for a man is to somehow attract the attention of a girl he likes. But for some reason, these instinctive methods of attracting attention are usually ignored by girls. Moreover, such actions of men sometimes lead to the fact that the girl puts this masculine representative in the "ignore" folder.
I repeat. With age, manners, passing courses on speed seduction of women, etc., a man learns to demonstrate what women need and to hide what is not needed. That is, show flowers, romance, etc. This is definitely good. But you will see the flowers yourself. I try to convey to you what is difficult to hide, that is, instinctive behavior, which works almost always without some kind of training or even contrary to training. His women are often misunderstood. About often made mistakes on first dates and at first meetings read in the book
So, the man begins the dance of the African gorillas. This can be expressed in completely different ways. But if you understand the general principle and read a few examples, you will begin to find such dances much more often than before.
The main task of the dance is to attract the attention of the girl. How can this happen?
- A man can literally do something unusual connected with body movements.. That is, it is a dance, demonstration performances of karatekas (when they are not needed, naturally). The younger the man, the easier it is to see it. The older, the harder. For more experienced guys, this can be expressed in much stronger facial expressions, gestures, a louder voice than usual.
That is, if a man came in and at some girl begins to say something louder than usual, waving his arms more than usual (and the situation does not have it), then this is an indirect sign of "dance" and so you can understand that you like this man. In combination with other signs (looks for a long time, for example), you can already draw some conclusions and actions.
Practice on the young and inexperienced, and facial expressions of the more experienced will no longer remain unsolved.
- A man commits some brave deed.
Everything here is not as obvious as it seems. What is a brave deed? It seems everyone understands.
In fact, this is absolutely not the case. The fact that for one super-bold act, which demanded from him an extraordinary exertion of all forces, for the other it is quite natural and common. And the point here is not only in character, but simply in skills.
Parachute jumping, speaking to the public, saving someone, this is an approximate standard set of bold actions. However, for some, even these actions are an ordinary professional routine..
Therefore, we need to determine not at all a bold act, but in relation to a particular man. How to do this, given the fact that men and their skills are completely different? After all, we do not know what kind of person this is in reality and cannot determine whether it is a bold act or not.
In fact, everything is usually a bit simpler than it seems.
First, we can rely on the reaction of others. For example, if people are greatly surprised by such an act (long silence, or vice versa, if they react aggressively, then it is very possible that this act is unusual for a person).
Secondly, look at the man himself.. A person in a state of severe stress is still different from the usual. Overexcitation, somewhere a slight trembling of hands, etc.
A bold act, as you probably already understand, often does not carry a rational meaning. That is, because of this act, the relationship with the manager, with other people, may be (not necessarily), may be a risk to health, etc.
The whole point of this act is only to attract the attention of the woman you like, and not to earn more, etc. (sometimes such motives only to divert attention from the dance)
If attention is attracted, the task is completed. If not, then maybe the next thing will happen or the man will go to look for another woman.
As you, I hope, have already understood, at this stage a woman needs to notice the deed and react correctly. That's right - it is not necessary to praise. Correct - to notice and be surprised. Surprise and look at the man with different eyes. That is, turn to him, look at him, ask about the act of something, maybe even scold (not very seriously). That is, the feeling of a woman should be something like this: “It turns out that lies inside him. It turns out that this is not an ordinary man, but a hero, etc. "
If you have not noticed a male act (which is elementary, as this is usually a series of actions), then you made a mistake. Incorrectly responded, and you made a second mistake. In this case, the transition to the next stage of the relationship is hardly possible or at least complicated. After all, jumping over the steps is easy only in the movies. In life, jumping over several stages is quite difficult.
Accordingly, and vice versa. If you do not want a transition to another stage of the relationship, then ignore the dances or comment on them in the spirit: “You are doing nonsense, you have nothing else to do”?
Stage 3. Breakthrough for communication.
Well, everything is more or less clear here, so I will not paint in detail. In this stage, a man may somehow, albeit not too freely, but communicate with a girl.
Of course, free communication can occur beyond the framework of this sequence of actions. However, we are talking about the stages of courtship of a man and a woman, and not about the stages of communication. These are different things and they have their own stages of development of relations, although sometimes they are similar.
Best of all, of course, if communication does not begin with conversations about the weather (although this will also go), but with conversations about the exploits of a man that he performed at a previous stage or in principle in life.
It seems to you that men do not commit feats? This is not true. You just set the bar too high for this, or you don’t even notice what is. If by feat we mean any overcoming of ourselves for the sake of a woman, then you will notice exploits almost every day.
Stage 4. A man tugs at a woman's pigtails..
How else to understand that you like a man? This is when a man begins to "pull you by the pigtails." To some extent, this stage has something in common with the second stage. That is, the man also attracts attention, but more intense. After all, it is one thing to dance afar the dances of African gorillas, which the girl may not even notice, since she is looking the other way. It’s quite another thing to pull a pigtail. There is nowhere to go. Attention will almost guaranteed to be paid to a man.
What is interesting noticed. If a boy pulled a girl by a pigtail in kindergarten or in junior high school, then, as a rule, girls do not even doubt what it means. Of course, this is a sign of attention and courting. And the girls react to it accordingly. But if something is the same, in fact, occurs in a more adult age, then the man immediately ranked as a company of enemies.
Why it happens? Most likely, in childhood we are closer to our instincts and easier to understand what's what. At a more adult age, this connection is slightly lost, and we view the behavior of other people through the prism of “how to behave”.
But understand one thing. If a woman really likes a man very much, if a man is not over 35-40 years old, then he simply cannot refrain from pulling a girl she likes by a pigtail. After all, he likes you. Still so simple.
Think for yourself. After all, men do not take offense at women for many of their instincts. For example, you are afraid and even shout at the sight of big bugs, rats and something else. Well, you shout loudly, sometimes even very loudly. None of the men on this your instinctive reaction is not offended. It is also pointless to take offense at men for their natural behavior.
How does all this happen in a more adult age?
Of course, in the literal sense, the man will not pull the pigtails already (I hope so, otherwise the man was stuck just in childhood). But instinct is strong and moves to action.
The most common action that is similar to pulling pigtails is arguing with a girl, banter, poking, harsh jokes (by your standards, of course), etc. There are, of course, those for whom this behavior is naturally the same as breathing and is not at all connected with any particular girl. These need to be cut off.
So, let us assume that a man has appeared in your surroundings, who devotes a significant part of your communication to play a trick on or to argue with you somehow. Look at such a man more attentively. It may well be that he has already passed the first stages of courtship without your knowledge.
How is something done without your knowledge? It is not right. Nothing should happen without your knowledge. If a man is suitable, then you need to take him and bring up. If unsuitable, then you need to cool it until it is too briskly jumped to the next stage and did not begin to cause you problems.
This concludes the first part of this article. In the following sections I will talk about the other stages of instinctive courtship of men for women. I hope that this will be interesting and informative for you.
The second part of the article "How to understand that he needs you," read.
Sincerely, Rashid Kirranov.
How to understand that you like a guy? Girls, girls, women know how to hide their sympathy well, men do not possess this skill. These actions will help you understand whether you like a guy, no matter where they happen, at school, at work, in the company of friends or in some other situation:
- The man tries to always touch, copies your gestures and actions, so that you start to seem so that you are like him.
- He tries to behave especially gallantly and politely, rather than with other representatives of the fair sex. If he helps to remove outer clothing, opens the door, wears things - this is a sign of his indifference to you.
- If a man, a man, has a desire to care, to care for his beloved, then this is also a sign of sympathy. When they like a girl, they try their best to please her.
- He will not stand back to you.
- A stranger likes you if he looks at you longer than others.
- If a young man constantly talks about himself, this does not mean that he is an egoist. Simply, most likely, he is worried and does not know what else to talk about.
- Constantly trying to touch you.
- If you have similar interests, then he will pay special attention to these topics.
- If nervous, his excitement will be visible.
- Will repeat your gestures.
- Will make a compliment, even if you just have a new manicure.
- If he is joking, it is not to offend. Just wants you to smile.
- Will often make compliments.
- Will monitor your literacy more clearly than before.
- Will not write indifferent phrases.
- Will show interest in the life of the girl.
- A man distinguishes her in comparison with his friends.
- When a woman likes a man, he writes that he is bored.
- He complains about his other acquaintances.
- She is interested in passions and hobbies.
- Writes first.
- Often comes to the page of the girl (in every possible way shows activity).
- Loves to joke to cheer her up.
Eyes will not lie. If a guy likes you, the signs will tell you about it. A brave person will constantly send glances in the direction of the girl, but a modest contrary. This type of people cannot express their feelings.
- The dilated pupils, a sidelong glance with a tender smile on the lips are a sure sign of sympathy.
- A look directed at the forehead is only a business interest.
- A look that moves to the lips, then to the eyes is a sign of friendship.
- In the company of friends, he will always monitor his "prey" and will not let it out of his sight.
- Often corrects, pulls clothes - trying to look better.
- Puts one foot forward - he has some uncertainty.
- Straightens back - trying to look more confident.
- Scratching his head during a conversation - he is confused.
- Raises eyebrows during a conversation - a clear sign that he likes you.
- Rubbing his face - worried, because he wants to please.
- He puts his hands on his belt - he wants to show that he is confident in himself.
- Twists a button or a zipper slider - going through and willing to be around.
- Strokes hair on his head - wants to look more attractive.
In this case, you need to know his character. A timid person even has a small smile - a hint that this man liked you. In the same strong actions and other signs of attention, respectively.
He will strive in every way to meet, will be happy to provide any help, the main thing is the presence in your life. A man in love will never say a rude word to his passion, but will try to please in everything.
- You can see from your eyes that a man likes you when he looks at you for a long time.
- Makes gifts based on your interests.
- Helps in solving problems.
- Attracts attention.
- Attentive to the change of mood.
- Thinking about the future.
- Jealous of other males.
- Introduces with your friends.
- Listening carefully.
- Always tries to protect.
- Often calls.
- A man in love always tries to look perfect. Often corrects its appearance.
- It is possible that he decided to change his hair or something else transformed.
- He tries to make the girl understand that he is interested in him. Shows sympathy. Men enjoy this stage of relationships, they love to conquer.
- He tries not to call every 10 minutes. This period is very popular with girls - flowers, movies, dates.
- Having achieved attention, a man will feed your feelings with something new, unusual, bring in more romantic moments, try to learn more about the girl and act based on it.
- During this period, the man becomes not so active, but the desire to spend time together has not disappeared.
- A man in love is attentive to changes in mood, always listens, supports.
- If he talks about his childhood, experiences - this is a sign of trust. He is not afraid to appear gentle and gentle.
- The guy is bored when the girl is not around.
- A man in love does not see the flaws in his passion and certainly does not correct the girl.
- He will not be rude to joke.
By phone calls and sms you can find out that the guy likes you. Signs of attention in the form of telephone messages and calls can become intrusive, but only to find out when the next meeting will be and how things are going. Although there is such a type of men who do not like telephone conversations at all. They often write SMS. It is easier for them to open themselves looking in the eyes.
If you are not indifferent to him, then below are a few points by which you can determine that a guy likes a girl. The list of signs is selected from the manuals on psychology.
- If you want to understand whether you like a man, then you can directly ask about it. if he is not shy.
- A guy who is in love will not discuss other girls with you only if he wants to cause jealousy.
- If you notice how the guy looks at you, you should not immediately rejoice, perhaps - this is a reaction from his side to your views. Maybe it's just curiosity.
- There are guys who are by nature very kind and accommodating, and he has such behavior towards everyone without exception.
- Do not ask friends to find out about the sympathy of the guy. what if he likes another.
- If a guy during a conversation considers your body, then there is interest, but only in the physical plane.
To understand whether you like and interest you to a guy, the test will help you figure it out. It is recommended to carry out several simple test tasks that will show the truth of the guy's feelings.
- To understand the interest of a man, you can break an ordinary pencil and ask a guy to grind it. If he gladly, smiling, agrees, then there is sympathy. So and other requests - if performed easily and simply - the result is obvious.
- It is necessary to catch the man’s gaze and immediately look at his watch, then again at him. If he also draws attention to the girl’s watch, and then looks at you again, you can safely think: “This is a sign that he likes me.”
- It is necessary to invent a story that today you and your girlfriend were going to the movies, but she could not. If a girl likes a man, he will immediately offer his society.
There are a lot of similar tests. The main thing is not to get carried away. Do not use them on guys who do not like.
If all these tests turned out to be positive, then now it is worth figuring out what these feelings are, how long it is.
An adult man likes you, but how do you know that this is love? Not at all difficult. If your question - whether I like a guy, you answer positively, you need to count how often you think about this person. If these thoughts are constantly in the head, then this is already love.
Love can interfere with the necessary perception of reality. If a guy likes a girl, you can easily deceive yourself. It will not be easy to understand his behavior. Lovers often see what they want to see. In this case, no need to rush to conclusions, as you can make a mistake.
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