Declaration of love to a man
When appropriate If you assume that your chosen one has tender feelings for you, but are unable to decide on recognition. Such lack of initiative may be due to his lack of self-confidence, shyness, drama in past relationships. In such cases, the man can usually be very careful. Nevertheless, if by direct or indirect signs and actions you understand that you are far from indifferent to a person, then you can confess your love first. By the way, it is possible that you will catch a man by surprise with your words, and he will not immediately orientate himself with mutual recognition. Be prepared for the fact that the beloved will not decide on the reciprocal step right away, but will wait a short pause. It is possible that you are simply tired of waiting for certainty, and cannot understand - it is hard for a man to gather courage to declare his love, or he simply does not views you as a potential sweetheart. If you clearly understand that there is no desire to wait any longer, and in order to move forward, you need to clarify this issue, then tell about your feelings. They may not be mutual, but it's better to take the time to switch your attention to the other guy, and forget this, than to harbor empty illusions. When it's inappropriate Many men are by nature leaders and "hunters" who are interested in seeking a woman's favor and being the leaders in relationships. If your partner is of this type, then, most likely, he will want to take the relationship to a new level with his own recognition. This is inappropriate if your relationship was at the level of flirting. Perhaps the young man is still just looking at you, assessing the prospects of your possible relationship. If this is the case, you can scare him off with your hasty confession. Don't confess your love to someone who is unaware of your feelings. Perhaps we are talking about an old friend or colleague. Your words can throw a man into a stupor, and this reaction will obviously only disappoint you. Try to start with flirting to understand the approximate attitude of the chosen one to himself. Perhaps after this, the first declaration of love will not follow from your side, but from him. If the man is already in a relationship, and it seems to you that he cannot make up his mind solely because he is not sure of your feelings. Or you want to push him to choose your favor. A young person may find this obsessive and manipulative. And in general, if he loved you, he would hardly be in a relationship with another woman. The second option: if he really needs to make sure of your feelings for the final choice, he will ask you about them himself. Well, and, perhaps, the main rule: do not confess your love if there is none. Some women take this step when they are depressed or want to finally end their relationship with their boyfriend or husband. It may seem that a declaration of love to another man will help to overcome a personal crisis, even if you do not actually have exciting emotions at the sight of this person. In fact, this is a delusion. If you start an affair with a guy whom you hope to fall in love with over time, then you will only provide yourself with unnecessary problems. Just understand yourself, solve your current difficulties without playing with other people's feelings.
How to confess your love to your beloved in your own words
- Your confession should come at the right time. Make sure that the beloved is not busy with any important business, he is not in a bad mood, and he is not in a hurry. Ideally, a date where both of you are relaxed, and you shouldn't confess your feelings in the wrong place - during a break from school, in the middle of a crowded crowd, in the middle of a working day, in front of witnesses. Let it be a quiet and secluded place where no one will interfere with your conversation. Lead the young man to your words of love. For example, remember how your acquaintance began, what you then thought about your chosen one, how glad you are that everything turned out that way. Don't get too deep into the memories, but tell him about the most important moments of your relationship. The guy should clearly understand that he just made a declaration of love. Just say, "Thinking about all this, I realized that I fell in love (love) you." Avoid phrases: “I feel something for you”, “You yourself understand what I was leading to” and other veiled confessions.
Looking into the eyes is the most sincere confession
Many people believe that this recognition should sound when people look into each other's eyes, and not otherwise. If you suspect that your beloved also thinks so, then he certainly will not be impressed by the recognition through the virtual network, for example. Tune in to this dialogue in advance, do not allow nervousness and uncertainty. Look the guy in the eyes, smile and say what you wanted. Speak simply, without florid phrases and too long introductions. If you are the first to make the confession, then don't expect an instant response. Noticing that the guy is confused or embarrassed, unobtrusively translate the topic into another direction.Tell about feelings in SMS
It is advisable to make such confessions while being tete-a-tete, but if you know that you will not see each other soon, or you understand that you will not be able to voice these words out loud, use SMS. Be sincere and write as you are. Admit that you hesitate to tell him about your feelings in person, but want him to know that you love him. Make sure that the message has been delivered - if he does not call you back or write back, then ask later if he received your SMS. Having heard a positive answer, and without waiting for the development of the dialogue, do not take any steps and do not ask clarifying questions - now it is his turn.Declaration of love through Contact
Now many acquaintances happen precisely through Contact, as well as recognition. If you communicate a lot with a guy on the Web, then he may well read the words about your feelings there. Pick a moment when the young man is definitely in no hurry, and write about what emotions he evokes in you. If you are afraid to write your boyfriend about love directly, send him a song that describes your feelings, letting him know about it. You can paint graffiti on his "wall" if you decide to make the confession public. You can also indicate in your "marital status": in love (indicating the name of your beloved in the same place).I love to say on the phone
By SMS and in VK, you will not be able to immediately understand how the guy reacted to your words, but it will be easier to do it over the phone. Make sure that the other person is not distracted by anything, and yourself eliminate the possibility that you will have to interrupt the conversation. Say in advance to yourself what you plan to say to your beloved. Call only when you are in a good mood and try to calm the excitement as much as possible.Write a love letter of confession
Nowadays, very few people write letters to each other by hand, forgetting that it is very exciting and romantic. Write about everything that you feel for the guy, seal the letter in an envelope. Do not forget that the handwriting must be neat, the text must be correct, and the paper must be free from blots. You can give the message to the young man at the end of your meeting or ask for a courier to deliver it. Do not overload the letter with unnecessary information - just describe your attitude towards the guy, tell us when you realized that you are in love and add that you have long wanted to confess to him that he means to you.
Declaration of love to a married man
Such recognition can only be made if the loved one has already indicated his feelings for you. You also need to think carefully before getting involved in such a romance, but if you are sure that you cannot control yourself and want to tell the man about your attitude, then keep in mind that there are certain rules for this. 1. Confidentiality In this situation, you will not be able to declare your love to the whole world. You must be completely sure that the words of your love will not become public, which can turn into big problems for you and for your beloved. 2. Love letter Your message should not catch the eye of the man's family, so forget about e-mail - it is possible that not only the man you fell in love with has access to it. It would be most reasonable to write a letter by hand, without naming any names and details in it, by which you can determine that it is about your beloved. Give the envelope personally to the man, indicating that no one except him should see what is written there. 3. Phone call If you are afraid to leave some material confirmation of your love, then you can simply say everything that you feel for your beloved. Call him at a time when he is definitely alone and not busy with anything and tell him about your feelings. 4. Tete-a-tete The easiest and most reliable way is to tell a married man about your love, being with him. He may have decided to ask you out, give you a ride, come to visit you, spend time after work - all these situations are conducive to a frank conversation, but before taking into account the above tips, consider what prospects you have in this romance. If there is even the slightest opportunity to abandon the relationship with a married person, then take it. Turn your gaze to free men, give yourself a chance to build other relationships.
How beautiful it is to confess your love to your husband
Of course, since you are already married, the words of love have already been voiced and, most likely, more than once, but this does not mean at all that you do not want to tell the chosen one again and again how important he is to you. Beautiful declarations of love undoubtedly keep the romance in the marriage and strengthen it. So which option should you choose? Perhaps you once discussed with your beloved man that you would like to visit a certain city, but until now you somehow did not get the opportunity to carry out your plans. You have a chance to experience the delights of a honeymoon again. Guess when you and your husband have the same vacation, buy tickets for this period and hand it to your beloved in a beautiful envelope, in which you also put a letter. In the message, admit to your spouse that you are very happy that you once married him, love him and want to replenish your family life with new impressions. Print your best joint photos, choosing a frame for each of them. Hang the pictures on your bedroom wall, placing them in the shape of a heart. In one of the frames, for example, in the middle of the heart, there may be a white sheet of paper on which it will be written in red letters: “I love you!” When the spouse is going on a business trip, to work or just to the gym, put in his bag twice a folded sheet of paper that will contain your declaration of love. Bring your spouse breakfast in bed, and so that he certainly does not doubt your romantic mood, show a little imagination. It doesn't matter what is on the plates - sandwiches, scrambled eggs, casserole - all this should be in the shape of a heart. If your husband likes to have breakfast with porridge, then draw a heart with jam on it. In general, let romance be in every dish. For reliability, you can leave a note with a confession near a cup or plate. While your husband is not at home, surprise him - order a couple of dozen balloons that will rise to the ceiling. You can also throw balls on the floor. You can draw a poster on which it will be written: “Every day is a holiday with you! I love you!". However, you can just say about this, if such a gift raises questions from the chosen one. Please the chosen one with dishes that he will definitely like. Do not forget to decorate all this beautifully: candles, wine, sensual music, you are in seductive clothes. At the end of dinner, you can invite your beloved to a slow dance, during which you can again say that you love him. Shortly before the arrival of your husband, take a full bath of hot water, add foam, you can use scented sticks, arrange candles. Purchase in advance a special tray for the bath, on which you can place two plates of your favorite dish, fruit and wine, and then invite your loved one to an unforgettable dinner. networks collage or just a joint photo, accompanied by an appropriate entry. Such a post can be timed to coincide with some important date - the anniversary of marriage, Valentine's Day, his birthday.
