How men hide their feelings
By nature, guys are very secretive, it is difficult for them to share their feelings and experiences. When they open their souls to another person, they fall into psychological dependence, and this does not fit with the concept of a real man.
Women are more emotional, this is how nature works. Men have more developed logical and rational thinking than creative. Perhaps that is why it is so difficult for them to understand the feelings and feelings of each other. But it is still worth trying if this is a dear and beloved person.
First of all, why are they doing this?
In fact, young people are simply forced to hide their feelings, believing that a real man should control himself, to show feelings and emotions is a woman's lot. Unfortunately, in the modern world, the bright manifestation of emotions by men is accompanied by ridicule from the representatives of the same sex.
In relationships, they also have to be strong, maybe even rude, because this is what the women themselves want. Feelings are hidden in order not to show the girls how much they are in love, believing that having learned about this, they will lose interest in them. The state of love, according to the guys, is a weakness and can be called henpecked. The woman pesters him with questions, takes offense, not receiving an answer. However, it is worth considering what is more important than words or deeds that prove feelings. And words very often turn out to be empty.
Men mistakenly assume that their ostentatious indifference is the best way to gain female attention. Even if they want to spend every day together, they will never admit it. Most of all, they are afraid of losing their independence, so they keep their beloved at a distance. They try to suppress their emotions, believing that as soon as a woman feels her power over him, she will manipulate him.
The reason for hiding their feelings can be severe pain that they once experienced. Perhaps it was non-reciprocal love. Men are afraid to appear defenseless, so they have difficulty opening up. It takes time and trust to be completely honest.
Another reason is the lack of confidence in your feelings. He thinks for a long time whether he did the right thing. It seems that he only needs her, but suddenly love will pass and what, he wasted time and money. Uncertainty can also arise if it has been rejected in the past.
In intimate relationships, men depend on women, and are in no hurry to initiate them into this. Making the lady wait is one of the tactics, because starting a new relationship, guys think soberly without emotions, otherwise it will be a sign of weakness.
Considering all this, we can conclude that there is no mystery in male behavior. They just conquer a woman only in a way known to them. It is unlikely that a guy, because of his girlfriend, will forget about the conventions established by society.
Hopefully, they will understand that the main thing for a woman is not only masculinity in her beloved, but care, kindness, and attention.
How men act in order not to show their feelings.
They look tough, rude, indifferent, but in their souls they are the opposite. This, of course, is not always, all people are different, but for the most part they are like that. A man who loves, but tries to hide it, contradicts himself. Shows with all his appearance that he is indifferent, and he himself is trying to meet.
If a man is indifferent, he does not show interest in events in a woman's life, in her feelings and desires.
A loved one can react aggressively to manifestations of tenderness, pity, desire to help him, but this does not mean that he does not need it. In this case, the girl needs a lot of patience.
It was always accepted to consider a woman a mystery, the guys also succeeded in this field. Their thoughts, feelings and desires have always remained a mystery to the opposite sex. Assuming mysteriousness, a man thinks that, in this way, he seems more attractive.
Of course, not every guy is a kitten inside, but a wild beast outside, banging on the table with his fist is not always a manifestation of tenderness. He can really turn out to be an indifferent and insensitive person who does not hide anything. Sometimes, showing aggression is one of the ways not to show your feelings.
It is generally accepted that the strong half of humanity should decide everything on its own, although they so want to have some of the problems removed from them, but they cannot admit it.
Many guys try to show that they are very popular with women by increasing the real number of their girlfriends, trying to cause jealousy, thus, stir up feelings.
Every man prides himself on being a representative of the stronger sex and showing strength is one of the methods to impress his lady.
Another way to hide your true feelings is through overt indifference. Realizing that a woman is liked, a man can begin to avoid her, not losing sight of her, being nearby, for example, in the same company, even communicating with other persons.
By hiding their emotions deep down, men can look very distracted due to their inability to think logically while doing so. Young people are afraid to be frank because of their vulnerability, becoming defenseless, because it is so easy to offend someone who loves you.
How he behaves to hide love.
- Shows with all his appearance that he has a lot of fans, even if this is not so.
- He often turns to a woman for various invented reasons, surprising her with stupid questions.
- Changes in the presence of the object of adoration. Only the one who was discussing some issue in the company is silent and shyly smiles.
- Demonstrates his indifference, speaks with anyone, but not with her while throwing furtive glances.
- Being in the same company, he does not try to hug or joke, as with everyone else.
- He tries to find out from his acquaintances information about the woman of interest, while avoiding her.
All this is strange, but falling in love works wonders. Such behavior can indicate to a woman the attitude of this person towards her. All men are different, but everyone can fall in love in their own way, not as emotionally as a woman. Nothing will reveal men's secrets like women's intuition. Simple human attention and patience will help you figure things out. You can't rush things. You may not like the result. After all, men are the stronger sex, you do not need to openly try to control them. Let them make their own decisions.
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