10 things that tell a man you love him
How often do you feel like you give him all of yourself, but he does not reciprocate ? How does the psychology of men work in this case? Maybe he loves you less than you love him? Or don't like it at all...
Why does he sometimes close in his"shell",and you can't reach him?
I am sure that these questions torment you quite often. I will tell you a small but very important truth - you just show your love in the wrong way!
Psychology of men- actions are more important than words
You have heard more than once that men and women are creatures from different planets: your man is from Mars, you are from Venus. That you act impulsively, and he likes to analyze his actions. That visual contact is important for him, and verbal contact is important for you.
You put all your feelings into a phrase"I love you", but those three words may not be all that important to him.
So I suggest you find out what a man wants really from you. You will understand,how to show that you love a manin a way that truly appreciates it. These are small actions. «
love »
, which will emphasize your concern for him. And you will understand why they are more significant for your man than words.
- Give him your attention
Noticing that you have been all evening (he solved his questions on «
take over the planet »
for today and was able to make time for you!) spend in conversations with friends on the phone, he interprets this as“I am not important to her”, “She does not appreciate my efforts”
.
The male brain is designed to perform only one function at a time. Women function differently (don't you know they multitask!). In the evening, when he can pay attention to you, he will appreciate if you learn to focus on it. Male psychologyunderstands it as“You are the most important thing to me. I understand the value of time with you. I love you"
.
- Cook his favorite food
You know the old proverb:"The way to a man's heart is through his stomach"?
So, in these words, no matter how trite, lies the truth.
How well do you knowwhat does a man wantfor dinner (without asking him every time about it), demonstrates your knowledge about him. And indeed - couples who know many small details about each other are the happiest in marriage.
And one more very important point that you should know about. Offer your man only the best food you can cook for him.
He earns money, provides for the family in order to give the best that he can at the moment. Give him back the best in the form of high-quality, wholesome, healthy food. Buy the best piece of meat for him (let it be more expensive!), cook the best fish, make fragrant and delicious cheesecakes from the freshest cottage cheese.
So he will see how much you appreciate his efforts, and will gratefully accept such a manifestation of love for him.
- Wear clothes that make you attractive to him
It doesn't matter how long you've been together. After all, this is not at all a reason to walk in front of your man in a bathrobe and wear curlers on your head. If you have a lot of shabby pants, stretched T-shirts, sportswear in your wardrobe, throw them away.
We men are not interested in spending evenings with « friend at the gym » . And then do not be sad: why does he see me as a friend, pays little attention, does not notice me as a woman. Of course, because in this form you are very unlike the desired woman. It is very important that you always want to look good for him.
The male brain is more responsive to visual cues than the female brain. Noticing you in a beautiful dress, new lingerie, elegant suit, he will appreciate your desire to be visually pleasing and feminine for him.
Instinctively, a man will see in you a woman who wants to please, protect, love. With which you want to build. This is how male psychology works.
- Take care of youself
Avoiding stress, eating right, exercising, taking care of your body - all this may sound like a call to a healthy lifestyle, but it is alsoway to show him your love.
Psychology of menis designed in such a way that they will perceive it as a kind of message:“I take care of myself, I want to be the best for you, give you healthy children, I want to live happily next to you and I will try to do everything possible to protect you from the painful experience of losing a loved one”
.
What other motivation might be needed in order to be healthy?
- Compliment him
Since ancient times, men have had to fight to provide women with protection and security. Today, the need to exercise such protection has partially disappeared physically. But in the world of material survival, nothing has changed. Just different weapons.
Therefore, try to convey to your man the way you see him. : a protector, capable of solving any problems, a jack of all trades, a stallion and a champion, magnificent and most intelligent.
Sincere compliments about his appearance and strength will confirm that you admire him. And he equates it with love. This is what it really iswhat does a man want!
After he easily opens the jar of jam, mention how pleased you are to be in the company of such a strong man. Describe this as one of the reasons you chose him over others.
- Give him time to rest
Women are not shy about making time for themselves. Men also need personal time and space. Don't forget to offer him the occasional day to relax with friends, go fishing, hunt, ride a bike, or just sleep.
Psychology of mendesigned so that he will perceive these carefree periods as a reward, which is a manifestation of your love and understanding of his needs.
- Ask his permission and ask for his opinion
Your man wants to be an important part of your world. This is how it worksmale psychology. First of all, he is experienced and able to solve any issues.,
and then your lover.
Find out his opinion on how best to act in an important situation for both of you (not on trifles: which curtains to choose?! or flowerpots for your flowers - this is not important for a man). So you show your trust and the value of his opinion for you.
Learn to ask permission from a man. Whether it's gatherings with girlfriends, buying a dress, a business trip. So he will feel your loyalty to him, and this is the best sign of love for a man.
- Thank him for every little thing
A businessman friend of mine always speaks of his wife with such admiration that I decided to go to her page on social networks and ask why she is so incredible. And what I saw surprised me. It was the first photo in her news feed of her (in a beautiful dress, well-groomed) hugging her man. And a comment above the photo: «
Dear, thank you for our most wonderful and happy life!”
How do you think her husband felt at the moment when he saw the post. I am the best!)
Try to express your gratitude to him more often. Even if what he did seems like a completely unimportant little thing to you. For example, when your man goes grocery shopping or takes out the trash.
You rush all your life, forget to pay attention to the things he did, and as a result you don’t know at all what does your man want . But he also has feelings.
So talk more“This is really important to me. Thank you for this"
. Thanks to him, you remind of your feelings and fill your relationship with positive energy.
- Hug him more
Instead of a light kiss before running out the door, opt for a long hug. Women make contact verbally, men do it through touch.
Hug for at least seven seconds. It may seem like a long time. But that's how long it takes him to make those hugs something important to him. itmale psychology!
- Give him sex
This is one of the basic needs of a man in a relationship with a woman. If a woman does not satisfy this need, he will look for her on the side. In such situations, the question may arise, huh? Here is one of the reasons why...
Yes, now everyone is tired and there is not always time for sex. That's why do it when the opportunity presents itself.
While a woman needs to increase the level of oxytocin in the blood to get pleasure (most of all is produced in the phasehugs» after sex), men get pleasure when dopamine levels rise. This chemical is produced during sex. You've known for a long timewhat does a man want- to him "that's all you need"
.
So sometimes forget about making love and just have sex with him.
Is a summary necessary?
If you have carefully read the material in this article, then you probably already understoodwhat does a man want. He :
- needs your attention, gratitude and affection;
- wants to be important, necessary, strong, irreplaceable;
- has emotions that he needs to release from time to time;
- wants to be close to a beautiful, healthy and, most importantly, loving woman.
I would be very happy if, as a token of the usefulness of this article, you leave your gratitude below in the comments! Also write what tips from the psychology of men you use to show him how much you love him and.
With love,
Yaroslav Samoilov
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