How a man tests a woman for feelings for him: how to pass a fidelity exam
There are enough mysterious and secret sides in a man, just as in a woman. Want to know how a man tests a woman for feelings for him.
Then today's review is just for you!
There are no naive men
The thoughts swirling in his head might not have delighted the woman if she could read them. If two partners love each other, it often follows that they should get married. Most likely, a man will begin to check his chosen one when, after a few months of communication, she admits the thought that it would be nice to wear a white dress and go down the aisle.
It is quite difficult to find a rational grain in such actions of a man.
It would seem, why bother and determine how dear you are to your passion? But you should be disappointed, since these manipulations will help not only assess your true feelings, but also determine the comfort of your stay together. Quite often, living in a "civil marriage", a woman relaxes and becomes. But this may not happen until you pass the kind of exam that the man prepared for you. Here are seven of the most common challenges that you will most likely have to go through.
Method one, very important
A man is quite worried about the question of how much his chosen one is faithful to him. Therefore, you will definitely undergo a serious test of fidelity. But what about love and trust between partners? This will not play a role for the man, as his decision to marry you must be reinforced by his confidence in the right choice.
Loyalty check
How will this test take place?
One of the obvious ways will be to meet friends, after which expect to be hit by the most important playboy from his social circle. But the most dangerous thing is the hidden check. You may be assigned a meeting somewhere in a cafe, for which the man may be late, or even not come at all.
At this time, a cute "charming woman" may sit down at your table with a proposal to continue acquaintance in another place and at another time. If you agree and exchange phone numbers with a new acquaintance, then the trust of your chosen one will be lost forever. The Internet is also a great helper for a man. Social media offers are tempting, beautifully designed, and may not mean anything in your opinion. However, the result of such conversations is also deplorable.
Method two, like
Your chosen one suddenly began to worry about your past meetings with other men? Has he suddenly started asking you in depth about your previous relationship? Is this really proof of his love for you and zeal for your past?
A man's jealousy of the past
Perhaps, but this is also one of the tests that you must pass. Therefore, remember that you must choose your words carefully when talking about past hobbies. A man may assume that previously you were too accessible, and his woman should be the personification of purity and inaccessibility. If earlier you really enjoyed success with the stronger sex, then the current chosen one does not need to know about this at all.
Men tend to constantly draw parallels between themselves and your former boyfriends, and unmotivated outbursts of anger and aggression follow from this.
You don't need this at all. Therefore, it would be best to remember past hobbies in passing, putting the reliability and uniqueness of your beloved in the first place, this will only strengthen his male ego.
Method three, combined
Exposing his alleged chosen one to all kinds of checks, the man himself, without expecting it, becomes hysterical and tense. In this case, sex becomes an outlet for him. No one will argue with the statement that it is sexy and is ideal for most men. What are the Italians who have a loud voice and are able to throw a grandiose scandal both in public and in private. Perhaps the very thought of following this stormy reconciliation pushes the man to rash acts.
Tolerance test
He will definitely try to make you unhappy with his behavior. The gift presented for the holiday may not be at all what you expected. You might be flirting with one of your best friends before your very eyes. You can wait for it in a cafe for too long a period of time.
The man will look forward to the subsequent after these tricks of your violent reaction.
All these actions are directed by your chosen one and not just to check how scandalous you are, and to see what kind of punishment you can think of for him. Therefore, feel free to use your main weapon - sex. Try to behave yourself wisely and do not try to refuse him, even if you harbor a grudge against the donated perfume, and not the expected gold necklace. A grandiose scandal must definitely end in a stormy reconciliation in bed. This act of yours will add pluses to you and will be appreciated by your chosen one.
Method four, financial
If a man has his finger on the pulse and controls your financial expenses, this does not prove his greed. Perhaps he does not like waste and useless waste. If you have his bank card in your hands and will be prompted to use it, approach this from a reasonable side. It can also be one of the tests for the strength of your relationship.
A woman's frugality or a test of greed
A man will most likely want to understand whether you are a rational housewife, whether you will be able to manage your finances wisely, whether you will buy enough food, whether you will not forget to please your loved one with some trifle.
It will be useful for you to remember that there are no trifles, even for a man. The best advice in this case would be to purchase enough necessary things, but while saving, remember that you should not buy discounted goods, as they may be of poor quality. Rich men have such a feature - they can reduce their income in order to make sure that he is important to the woman, and not his money. Remember this. Channel his dreams of unselfish love in the right direction and respond normally to an inexpensive car, furniture, or clothing. Perhaps this is one of the tests for you, so do not fall for such an elementary trick of your loved one.
Method five, economic
If you and your chosen one each have their own living space, then sooner or later you will have to meet in a common area. You either go to visit him, or invite him to your place.
Test what kind of mistress you are
In your home, first of all, a man can pay attention to how much you are housekeeping, whether you are clean, comfortable, whether you keep the rooms in proper order. Most likely, it will not be difficult for you to present yourself at the proper level. Once in the man's apartment, also try to offer your help in everyday matters.
Apartment renovation, washing, ironing are optional in this case.
It will be enough to wash the dishes together after dinner. Most likely, this will present you with a positive side, and the chosen one will be satisfied.
On its territory, you can also conduct a kind of test for a man. If he has no serious intentions to you, then your attempts to interfere with his own comfort and life will be nipped in the bud. Assuming that your relationship will not last long, the man will not allow you to change anything in his "den". Therefore, in order not to go nuts and not show yourself from the ugly side, it is better to clarify whether he really needs your help with the housework. Do not rush to feign zeal, only women who have low self-esteem do this. Remember that you are self-sufficient, just offer your services without rushing around the house with a mop and broom.
Method six, drunk
A man wants to see a worthy life companion next to him. Therefore, you most likely have to go through more and. Cohabitation presupposes the presence of children, which means that a woman must be impeccable in many matters.
Alcohol tests
You yourself know your body, you know how predisposed you are to alcohol, your state of health. Therefore, it will be useful to control the situation. Do not give in to persuasion and various attempts of a man to get you drunk. The most ideal option would be to drink half as much as he does. Only in this case you are guaranteed a worthy pastime and a successful evening. And your man will receive confirmation of your adequacy and calm attitude to spirits.
Method seven, bonus
Another test that your chosen one can surreptitiously offer is a test of your intelligence and sense of humor. But do not rush to loudly resent vulgar jokes or stories that are invented by a man and do not correspond to reality. Stay level, not aggressive.
Men marry smart
Yes, of course, they appreciate it, but being too smart is still a question. You should not show your superiority over a man, he will not appreciate it. Your jokes must be adequate, then the aykyu test will be passed with success.
Let the man know that he is a really good storyteller, but you also know when to stop. Rudeness and anger will not become your helpers, it is better to keep in an even mood, without emotionally heightened shades. Only in this case there is a high probability that you will withstand all the tests with dignity.
Outcome
If you have become the object of a thorough check on the part of a man, this most likely means that he intends to make you a marriage proposal in the future. Perhaps, subconsciously, a man realizes that he is acting ugly, but he immediately finds hundreds of excuses in his favor. Most likely, in the past, he had the sad experience of a hasty decision. This will be evidenced by his actions, namely, how a man checks a woman for feelings for him.
And in the case of you, he will definitely want to make sure that he will have a reliable rear at home. If you feel tested, then make sure that you are ready to see so many suspicious chosen one next to you. Only a man worthy of you can arrange so that you will never know about her. The decision to start a married life together should be made by you together, so as not to regret the choice in the future.
