The husband went to his ex-wife: what to do?
In our age, there are almost no good men left. Women try to find such partners who had a life before them without family obligations. If there was an official parting, it is worth considering: who is he or the previous companion to blame?
But now a woman falls in love with a divorced person without memory. Although, male partners who have been married are not particularly in a hurry to get a new marriage. However, it so happened that he agreed. And a new family was formed. But the ex-chosen one will always cross between existing relationships. The satellite can compare before and after. In case of discord, he will slip: the previous one knew how to cook tastier ...
But if there is also a child from that marriage, then relations with the ex will have to be maintained for the sake of the baby. So, if you decide to go through life with such a man, you will have to endure.
More often, of course, the former also finds a partner for herself and does not pretend to be the father of her child. What if she wants to return it? She will have advantages: a child, memories, mutual friends ...
And in an instant he announces that he is leaving for her. What should the chosen one do?
Discuss why he is so attuned? Maybe it's the child? Will the mother forbid to see him if the man does not return to the family? Or did the child ask his father to return, saying that his stepmother was treating him badly? We need to find out the reasons.
Why did the husband go to his ex-wife:
1.
If the one he is married to is a mistress - and destroyed his marriage, then it is not surprising that the man regrets and wants to return.
2. Common children. If you have a common baby, former partners will have to communicate. And there it is not far from reunification.
3. The kid did not like his stepmother, slander her and asks his father to return.
4. The man constantly compares his current companion with the ex, and not for the better.
5. With the next scandal, the passion drove the spouse out of the house.
How to survive the betrayal of your husband?
And what should a real companion do? Accept and try to get your spouse back? If you also have a common child, then perhaps your husband will return. But if nothing connects, and in the past marriage the child grows up, then it is unlikely that he will return. This is not the end of the world, and fortunately, decent free men remain. Next time, choose someone who has not been married and has no children.
Let's summarize everything written above.
1.
If a man is married a second time, then he will have the past baggage: a wife and children.
2. Try to find rapport with your children.
3. Look for a companion where the ex-wife is already dating someone.
4. Don't mention bad things about his previous family. Do not interfere with communication with children.
5. Take care of yourself, and keep the house clean.
6. Be on the lookout: if you left the family once, it may happen again. Having been with a mistress in a past marriage, your partner may leave you.
7. Find a free man who has never been married. This will keep yourself safe. And such a companion will only be yours.
