Ex-husband's new wife: what to do and how to react?
Your ex-husband - what should connect you with him? Probably, there should be absolutely nothing that should interest you in the personal life of a man with whom you divorced a long time ago.
Sometimes there is interest, because the new wife of the ex-husband appears. Often she just haunts and makes you think about a lot. But it's even worse when she herself interferes already in your life.
It is necessary to consider the situation from an unstable and unusual perspective. What if my ex-husband's ex-wife writes letters to me? Many women ask themselves this question. In fact, there are not many options:
- React in some way and do something about it, but at the same time it is pointless to waste time. It makes no sense for you even to communicate, unless just out of interest.
- Reply to the letter and tell about what they ask you about. The option is not the most correct, because this is how you will interfere with your personal life. But it's up to you to decide.
But what could be in the letters? Now we will consider the most common situations and options for how to get out of them:
- You may be asked for advice on family life. You better not give them, because this is their life and you should not be interested in anything. Just ignore the woman in this case.
- A letter of apology. This also happens, but you should not take everything too close to your heart. Just ignore emails as well.
Jealousy is not needed!
If you are jealous because your ex-husband loves your new wife, it's time for you to go to a psychologist, as this is simply not normal. You should be aware of the fact that after a divorce, a person automatically becomes independent. You cannot control it, it is simply unacceptable. Yes, your ex may love a new woman, there is nothing you can do about it.
And why is the ex-wife interested in her husband's new life? Most likely, this is all the same jealousy that you just need to get rid of. What would you do if your love was interfered with? You would probably be very angry, obviously.
The ex-wife of my ex-husband writes me letters
If you broke up, show respect and forget about the person forever, this will allow you to build a new life for him, without your intervention. Willows, too, can live the way you want, from scratch. You just have to understand that by interfering with others, you create the wildest conditions of discomfort for them.
How to respond to your ex-husband's new wife? You do not need to react in any way and make harsh statements. It is enough to respect the person or at least respect him, otherwise nothing is required of you. You don't owe a man, he doesn't owe you anything. Everything is extremely simple and straightforward.
If you suddenly want to intervene, remember that everything will return like a boomerang. If you want to build a strong family, nothing will come of it. You will also be defeated, as someone is sure to interfere with you. Do not wish others what you would not want to experience for yourself. It is not difficult not to interfere with anything, but it is difficult to sort out all the consequences later. Think about it and don't make mistakes.
Ex-husband loves new wife
