Confessing love to a man: rules that will help you talk about your feelings
The times of knights are far behind, and today women increasingly prefer to conquer men on their own. It's good if your chosen one can be safely called an adherent of the old traditions, but what if the representative of the opposite sex you like is (yet!) unavailable? It is possible that in this case you decide to tell him about your feelings. But how to do it correctly? A frank declaration of love can scare a man away, and therefore, women's magazine Charla invites you to develop a strategy that is more likely to help you find happiness in your personal life. So what to do and what not to do if you want to confess your love to a man? Let's figure it out right now!
Why is he silent?
First let's talk about why we often have to wait declarations of love from men for years. You will not believe it, but they, just like women, may be embarrassed to talk about their feelings. Many have been taught since childhood that a real man is always stingy with emotions, and someone is just scared to hear “No” from a woman they like. So, shyness is the first reason that a man cannot make a declaration of love.
The second reason is the man's confidence that you already know very well about his feelings. “I give a woman flowers / sweets / fur coats, go to the theater with her, spend holidays - this already indicates that I love her. Why say anything else? Believe me, many men think this way. If women often put feelings in the first place, then representatives of the strong half of humanity are more rational and prefer to prove their heartfelt affection not by word, but by deed. But it is more than real to extract a declaration of love from them ...
How to confess love correctly?
If you decide to take the initiative into your own hands, remember that a declaration of love should not be too obvious - you can hint to a man about your feelings. It is interesting that later he will think that he was the first to talk about his feelings, while the initiative still came from you. But this is poetry, and now let's talk about the main thing. So, a declaration of love can be done as follows:
1. Catch by surprise
Just say that you have known about his feelings for a long time, and you are ready to hear a declaration of love right now. On the one hand, you demonstrate that your feelings are mutual, on the other hand, you show that a man still needs to conquer you (in this case, with the help of a beautiful declaration of love).
2. Make romantic innuendos
Put heart-shaped chocolates in the pocket of his jacket, say that you feel the happiest only with him. It will not be difficult for a man to guess that you need him. The only advice is not to be too zealous. For example, many women decide to make a declaration of love by giving their chosen one their photo in a frame - this can scare a man away.
3. Become a part of his life
Cook his favorite meals, meet him from the airport when he returns from a business trip, sew on all the torn off buttons on his shirts, play computer games with him - in general, do everything to show a man how much he is dear to you. Charla Women's Site already said that the representatives of the stronger sex value actions more than words, and therefore, try to prove your feelings, and not just show them.
Where to confess love?
In what environment will a man perceive a declaration of love best? In fact, there are many ways to express your feelings. Here is an approximate list of places that are suitable for these purposes:
1. Cinema - a declaration of love will complete the evening perfectly if you and your man sit in the last row and watch a romantic movie.
2. Party - when you both have fun and get distracted from everyday problems, you can talk about your feelings. When a man is in a good mood, the chances that he (if there is sympathy on his part) will reciprocate you are maximum.
3. Shop or stop - sometimes a declaration of love is not very romantic, but no less memorable. For example, while standing in line for bread or waiting for a bus, you can simply say: “Actually, I want to say that I love you very much.” Unexpectedly and boldly - a man will be pleased to hear it.
4. Bed - your intimacy is already a great occasion for declarations of love, and therefore, use this opportunity to express your feelings simply, without flowery phrases.
5. Apartment - leave a note on the refrigerator with a declaration of love. It can be a heart made of paper or a regular sticker with a beautiful poem written on it. Another option is to have a romantic evening with a candlelit dinner. Although keep in mind that this can scare away many men.
You can also tell a man about your feelings in a restaurant, gym, theater, park and even the registry office!
Mistakes of women who talk about their feelings
Finally, don't be afraid to hear "No" because we can't please everyone. Let it be unlucky today, but on the other hand, you managed to overcome yourself, talk about your feelings and understand that your happiness is yet to come. Well, if a man reciprocated your recognition, then you can only be happy for you. Don't be afraid to love and talk about love! Be happy!
