Romance like a man. Why don't men want to confess their love?
You can often hear complaints from women who reproach their men for excessive coldness in relation to to them. Many women, during conversations with girlfriends, come to the conclusion that men are simply insensitive chumps, and this closes the burning topic, since there seems to be nothing more to add to this description. However, in reality, everything turns out to be not entirely sad, as it sounds from the lips of women. Men often show their attention to women, but all this happens through touching, kissing, hugging, etc., and women, as you know, love with their ears. Therefore, they need tender words whispered in their ear, compliments and declarations of love. By the way, with the latter, the situation is especially difficult, since men are not very happy with this occupation. They have several reasons for this.
Men don't like to confess their love, because:
- they think this scene looks too much sentimental... And they, in turn, as one of its participants - is very absurd. Men do not recognize romance: candles, dim lights, walks under the moon, but they follow the lead of women, who, according to popular belief, are simply crazy about it all. a man, too, can only in order to please his beloved passion. He feeds her, drinks, entertains, kisses, believing that by doing so he lets her know that he loves her. And he sincerely does not understand why a verbal proof of love is also needed.
Men are by nature more materialistic, and women are romantic, dreamy natures, which is why such a difference of opinion occurs. If a man is very strongly attached to a woman, and really has the brightest feelings for her, then, of course, he will decide on such a feat. But this does not mean that he will feel comfortable during a declaration of love.
- they are afraid that a woman at the moment of recognition will cry with happiness. Women's tears usually lead men into a stupor, and they have no idea how to get out of it. Not understanding how to behave with a crying woman, they lose their composure and can begin to behave extremely aggressively. Therefore, the fact that an innocent confession can turn the evening up and cause discomfort for a man makes him avoid this procedure.
- they think that after a declaration of love, you will have to urgently lead your chosen one to the registry office. Although this is an erroneous opinion, because in this matter everything is purely individual. Therefore, the recognition heard by far not for all women means a veiled marriage proposal, of course, not taking into account the ladies with too rich imagination, but they are rather an exception to the rule.
- they are afraid that the woman will laugh. Romantic words from a man's lips are so unusual in our society that sometimes a woman, hearing them, can begin to be moved by such a touching moment. At such moments, there will be a smile on her face, but a man can calculate this as a mockery and be seriously offended by such behavior. He will think that the woman is openly mocking him, considering his words too romantic and unworthy of male behavior. Thanks to this erroneous opinion, the impression of the evening will be ruined for a long time. And also it is fraught with the development of a complex in a man. The second time, he obviously won't go for it.
- they are afraid that a woman will not reciprocate. A very unpleasant sensation for a person of any gender, when you open your soul to your loved one, express your innermost thoughts, feelings, and he simply does not appreciate it. The man is already ripe for the transition to a new level of relationship. A woman, perhaps, still does not feel the same emotions in relation to a man, therefore, alas, she cannot respond to his magnificent confessions in the same way. A man after such a fiasco will feel like a complete failure.
And it also happens that the woman generally perceived him only as a friend, not even thinking about something more serious, and the man decided to bare his heart in front of her, thereby discouraging her and putting her in an uncomfortable position. Men are very afraid of such an outcome of a declaration of love, because no one wants to look stupid, especially in front of a person to whom you are not indifferent.
