Has his love gone? How to understand this?
Whom you love, you forgive much
For a sincerely loving man, his woman is truly the best. He wants to see her merits alone, often exaggerating them, and treats her shortcomings very condescendingly. If the partner begins to cool down towards the woman, the opposite process takes place, during which her dignity quickly diminishes, up to complete disappearance, but the disadvantages, previously invisible, begin to literally catch the eye and greatly irritate the person. A man with surprise, and sometimes with indignation, suddenly notices that his partner's figure is not the most impeccable, and the character could be better, and she cooks very poorly, and is too constrained in bed (or, on the contrary, behaves too freely, according to him opinion). Nagging, reproaches begin, sometimes for no apparent reason, literally out of the blue. This is a sure sign that the old feelings are gone.
Of course, even loving people can sometimes treat their partner unfairly because of poor health, fatigue, or nervous tension.
Therefore, such a sign is valid only if nagging and reproaches occur often enough, and not one-time
Previously, your partner was very condescending to your mistakes, mistakes, and now any of your mistakes, even the smallest, causes a flurry of stinging remarks? Alas, this is a bad sign. Especially if at the same time he does not miss the opportunity to compare you with other women: "But Lena would have done it much better ...", "Masha would never have made such a stupid mistake." This means that he mentally overthrew you from the pedestal. And, quite possibly, this place is already occupied by another representative of the fair sex.
If your man reproaches you for something, this does not always mean that he has stopped loving you. Perhaps his rose-colored glasses have simply fallen off. After all, partners at the first stage of a relationship idealize each other. When a relationship moves to the next level, flaws come to the fore. Lovers just need to find a compromise, be condescending to each other.
Doesn't he want to be near you? Alas, love has grown cold ...
A guy who truly loves seeks to spend his free time with his beloved woman. Of course, sometimes he will not miss the opportunity to meet old friends, visit his parents or go to a bar for a match of his favorite team, etc. But communication with a partner will happen very often. If he cannot drive up, he will definitely call and write a message. If the young man began to disappear, do not call, most likely, he has cooled down in relation to you.
Well, if meetings happen less and less and the man does not give any plausible explanation for this, the woman should prepare for a breakup. Most likely, she no longer attracts a partner.
The same is evidenced by the frequent and long absence of a man, for example, under the pretext of an urgent business trip, a sudden illness of a close relative, urgent business matters, etc. As they say, once can be anything, twice - maybe a simple coincidence, but three times - this is already a system ... Well, if his explanations are also frankly implausible, then everything is even more clear.
A very striking indicator is the intimate life of a couple. Previously, a man willingly took the initiative and was very upset when he received a refusal from his partner (even for the most good reason), but now the intimacy between them occurs less and less often. And the partner behaves without the previous fervor, and sometimes with such indifference, as if he really only fulfills marital duties? Or, even worse, under any pretext, in every possible way avoids intimacy, even when the lady is trying to take the initiative to get closer? With a 99% chance, she stopped being attracted to him as a woman. The reason for this cooling is not difficult to guess. Indifference and cooling should not be confused with a more calm, measured rhythm of the intimate life of spouses with experience, for example. After all, passion, even a very ardent one, cannot be maintained at the same level for a long time!
A loving man trusts his woman, speaks the truth. He is frank with her, willingly talks on a variety of topics, including rather delicate, painful for his pride. He does not shy away from asking her advice (even if he was brought up in a patriarchal spirit and believes that the last word should always remain with the man). If such conversations have stopped, and the partner perceives any attempt to bring him to frankness with undisguised discontent, takes offense, it means that he does not feel the same feelings for you.
What should a woman do in a situation where her partner's love seems to be in the past? It is impossible to give an unambiguous answer to this question. Each woman must decide for herself: either to come to terms with the fact that she is no longer loved, or to try to return the man's love, to continue the relationship. In the second case, you need to find out, carefully and objectively analyze the reasons for the partner's cooling and make the necessary adjustments to your behavior.
